FAQs

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I'm confused - what part am I invited to?

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There are several public parts: the Bedeken/ First Look in Georgia, our Aufruf / Pre-wedding Jewish Ritual in DC, A Queer Kabbalistic Hair ritual in Northampton, an Shabbat in Boston, Song Circle in Somerville, & a Shabbat in Philadelphia. Join where its convenient for you or follow your favorite lovebirds at every point in our tour.

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How do I RSVP?

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The RSVP tab at the top right. Also don't forget that all are encouraged to send a square of fabric to be sewn together to make our chuppah/ wedding canopy.

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What's a bedeken?

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Our spin on this tradition will take the form of a first look as the Bride & Groom of Frankenstein! You can learn more about what a bedeken is here: https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/alternative-bedeken-ceremonies/

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What's an aufruf?

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A pre-wedding Jewish ritual. You can learn more about what an aufruf is here: https://www.myjewishlearning.com/article/aufruf-being-called-up-to-the-torah/

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What should I expect in a Jewish wedding ceremony?

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You can check out this resource to learn about some of the different elements of a Jewish wedding: https://reformjudaism.org/beliefs-practices/lifecycle-rituals/weddings/12-rituals-you-may-see-jewish-wedding