Dog of Honor
Pacer June . . . Where do we begin? You could say Pacer is a pandemic puppy. But she very quickly became the center of our world. She has brought us together in so many different ways and we have truly grown as individuals and as a couple because of her. While Pacer is known for her infamous Pacer hugs and "Pacer sandwiches", if you happen to see her on the wedding day, please keep your distance. She will be in her " strictly business" mode.
Man's Best Friend
Oh our little Bryzzo Man! We had decided that it was time to get Pacer a friend in spring of 2021. Just from having Pacer, we knew we wanted an active working breed just like her. We stumbled across a little pup needing re-homed and that was it for us. The biggest surprise about Bryzzo is that he was a part of such a beautiful and well thought out proposal (he teases Pacer about it daily). Bryzzo is the perfect match to Pacer's calm, strictly business attitude. He is goofy, energetic and quite the cuddle bug. While Bryzzo's tail may be wagging a mile a minute at the wedding, we ask that you please refrain from interacting with him to make sure he stays on his best behavior for the day!
Maid of Honor
While Vanessa may be my younger sister, she has taught me so much more than I could ever imagine. Vanessa pushes and challenges me to be the best version of myself & she has made me the sister and friend I am today. If you see Vanessa at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Tupelo Honey - Comedy (stand ups, movies, etc) - Our pets My favorite thing about Vanessa is ... She is unapologetically and authentically herself in every situation. To know Vanessa ... is to know laughter.
Best Man
You ever been around a friend group that seems impenetrable? Let me elaborate... Like, you try to dog on someone, and it seems like the whole group can play off each other and somehow, it's now you getting roasted? Yeah... that's me and Gary... We make up 32.4% of our statistics to prove our points, we feel invincible when the squad is together, and trust me when I say this... All of our girlfriends/fiances find it annoying. If you see Gary at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Literally anything Crypto/NFT/Housing Market - Traveling - Gaming My favorite thing about Gary is ... the fact that we are the same person To know Gary ... is to know a 0.8 KD (if you know, you know)
Matron of Honor
Yes, DJ and I are getting married. But Katie is for sure my other half. We haven't just grown up together, we have been side by side during some of our biggest life moments. It is only right that Katie is by my side as DJ and I begin our life together. If you see Katie at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Her beautiful baby boy - Her fur babies! - Nursing My favorite thing about Katie ... she has the most genuine and contagious laugh I have ever heard! To know Katie ... is to know joy!
Groomsman
Adam is my brother, role model, and one of my biggest advocates. If I ever need anything, I know he's always someone I can count on. It would be nonsense to not have Adam stand by me on my wedding day. Adam, I love you so much and want to thank you for everything you've done for me. Without you, I wouldn't be where I am today. Have a beer on our wedding day because you deserve some credit! If you see Adam at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - the house he has remodeled - stupid things DJ has done - scotch/whiskey My favorite thing about Adam ... is his work ethic. He inspires me to work hard for my family To know Adam is to know… an amazing role model
Bridesmaid
Logan North is not only an incredible mom, she is an incredible friend. Our connection began back in our softball days (feels like a lifetime ago). Her name was always familiar to me due to growing up in the same area, playing in the same tournaments, and eventually she was a teammate to both Vanessa and I. While I may have been the mean upperclassmen to her, I always admired the way she carried herself on and off the field -- something I still admire to this day. If you see Logan at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Her beautiful baby girl! - Animals - Peloton My favorite thing about Logan is ... her loyalty to her family and friends. To know Logan ... is to know family.
Groomsman
I’m pretty sure the first time I met Thomas, I don’t even remember it… but there’s photographic evidence of it. It was our freshman year of college and we were just starting our pledgeship at Pike… Anyways, Thomas has grown to be an amazing friend who’s family welcomed me with open arms. If you see Thomas at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - surfing - skiing - being a firefighter in Los Angeles My favorite thing about Thomas is ... all of our college memories. To know Thomas is to know ... a sick adventure
Bridesmaid
If you look up the definition of bridesmaid, you’ll typically see basic things like “assisting bride with wedding planning duties”, “accompanying bride to wedding events”, etc. While I’m lucky enough to have a wedding party that does all these things, these women are so much more & Shellie is part of the glue that holds us together. Shellie has always supported and cheered me on from the sidelines (literally, in the stands). But as we grew closer, she became so much more than my friend’s mom, she became a bonus mom & a friend. I know Shellie would be there for me, or really anyone else, in seconds if I needed her. Shellie loves so hard and inspires me each and every day to lead with kindness but also stand up for yourself and use your voice to help others. Shellie is one of the women I would love to be when I grow up, it’s only right she watches my big day with a front row seat. If you see Shellie at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - The Beach (specifically the US Virgin Islands) - Sea Turtles (if you have the time…) - Fur babies! My favorite thing about Shellie is ... her fun mom energy!! To know Shellie... is to know unconditional love.
Groomsman
Austin is a long time friend that has stuck around through the good and the bad. He is one of those friends that you can barely see for months and pick up like it's nothing. Whether its in frisbee golf or video games, Austin is always there in my corner and I know he always will be! If you see Austin at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Valorant - Software engineering - Computer Science My favorite thing about Austin is ... To know Austin ... is to know a friend
Bridesmaid
Ashleigh is one of my favorite friends Vanessa has ever had. From the getgo, Ashleigh has been Vanessa’s Katie. From the field, to after game dinners, to the sleepovers, I’ve watched Vanessa and Ashleigh’s friendship develop into one that will remain solid and untouched no matter how much distance or time has come between them. Ashleigh is like a bonus little sister and I’m so excited to share this day with her. If you see Ashleigh at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Trine University & Trine Softball! - Fur babies! - if you need a funny story about Vanessa, she’s got it My favorite thing about Ashleigh is ... her bubbly personality To know Ashleigh... is to know friendship
Groomsman
Ronnie introduced Darien and I about a year ago. Darien and his fiancé, Logan, decided to name Ronnie as Amelia’s godmother. I got to be the lucky person to fill in the shoes as Amelia’s godfather. Since that time, I’ve quickly become closer to Darien. We both love non-basic-ass-sports (I’m sorry but football, baseball, basketball, soccer — BASIC) as well as some other recreational activities. I’m looking forward to the rest of our adventure. If you see Darien at the wedding, you can spark a conversation with him by talking about: - IHSAA wrestling - MMA - Cars - Coding (HTML & Java) My favorite thing about Darien is the his work ethic. This man works his ass off, and I use this as motivation sometimes. To know Darien is to know fighting sports.
Flower Girl
Amelia is our goddaughter and we couldn't imagine not sharing our big day with her. Amelia has truly changed the way DJ and I view kids. She is the best practice we could get if we ever decide to start our own family. But for now, we love the family we have because of Amelia! I think the wedding will be our biggest Goddaughter date yet!! We can't wait to see her battle her Aunt Ness on the dance floor! If you see Amelia at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Animals (ask about ZoZo, Julius or Winnie!) - Sesame Street - her shoes (Tita Ronnie gives the best shoes) Our favorite thing about Amelia is ... her ability to turn anyone's day around with just a smile
Ring Bearer
Hank & Jack will bring the party (& noise)!! These bundles of energy lighten up any room they enter and will for sure be tearing it up on the dance floor! If you see Hank & Jack at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Sports! (Wrestling, Baseball, they do it all) - Fortnite Our favorite thing about Hank & Jack is ... the endless laughter they provide!
Officiant
If you know DJ, you know Matthew as his landlord. If you know me, you know Matthew as my older brother that never stops making fun of me. Thankfully, he has cut me some slack since he's too busy making jokes at DJ's expense now. Matthew is fiercely loyal and is never afraid to show it. His humor could be his best feature... but I really think his compassion and empathy for others is unmatched. We asked Matthew to officiate because he knows me better than I know myself, we wanted you guys to laugh, and because I know he will make our day so special. If you see Matthew at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - Chicago sports (please for the love of god, don't mention Gr**nbay or boring old St. Lo*is) - His husky, Calvin - Ask him about the time with the dog harness.... he'll know.. My favorite thing about Matthew is ... his compassion for friends and family To know Matthew ... is to know puns
The Wiggle Wrangler
If I was worried about one person looking better than me on my wedding day... it would be Sean. Just kidding.. kinda. Sean and I have always been at odds since we are so similar. I think he is where I get my expensive and boujee taste. As the oldest, Sean has taught the rest of us a lot. But I think his thoughtfulness and the way he pays attention to others is the one thing I will always look to him for. Sean listens (even when you think he isn't) and has always been the best silent cheerleader for us all. He challenges me to be a better person all the time. He also loves my dogs almost as much as I do, plus Pacer and Bryzzo specifically requested Uncle Sean walks with them on the big day! If you see Sean at the wedding, you can spark conversation with these topics . . . - his Moose Goose - cooking, he makes a mean grilled pizza - working out, I mean, look at him My favorite thing about Sean is ... his ability to make you feel heard To know Sean ... is to know support
Usher
I have thankfully known Tristen for about a decade now. Tristen has been nothing but a supportive and brutally honest force in my life. He's protective, loyal, and I've been able to see him grow into such a wonderful husband and dad. Colton, a.k.a. Muffin Man, is the best gift Katie and Tristen have ever given me.. lol. But really; I am blessed to have this entire family in my life and our big day would not be the same without them being involved.
Usher
Travis was brought into our lives by Matthew and we are so glad he was! Travis can make ANYBODY laugh and it is ALWAYS a party with him! We are so glad to have Travis be a part of our big day!
Usher
Mike was also brought into our lives by Matthew! I think Mike may actually be DJ's soulmate.. but they were nice enough to let that slide for Tori and I. All jokes aside, we are so happy to have Mike be a part of our day!
Usher
Oh Herbert.. If you know him, you already know. If you don't, introduce yourself. Herbert is the life of the party anywhere he goes! We are so excited that he is a part of our big day and can't wait to join him on the dance floor!