Tori & Colin
Wedding Party
Violet Hott
Maid of Honor
My Maid of Honor – Violet Violet and I have been best friends since literally the first day of kindergarten, when she came up to me at recess and told me she loved my ladybug outfit. Instant friendship. From then on, we were inseparable—sharing snacks, stories, and growing up side by side. When we were little before snowstorms, we’d pack our bags and sleep over at each other’s houses just in case school got canceled, so we could sled in the yard together. Violet is the friend who always gets me, who’s been there through every big and small moment, and who can make me laugh until I cry. She’s thoughtful, loyal, and has a heart of pure gold. I’m so lucky to have her standing next to me on this day—and every day. -Love, Tori
Shane O'Donnell
Best Man
My best man is my brother — the same guy who’s been causing chaos, cracking jokes, and pretending he didn’t actually lose all those wrestling matches. He’s been there through every phase of life, the annoy the brother phase and the being an alright guy phase. He brings humor, great tunes, and just enough embarrassing stories to keep me on my toes. -Colin
Katherine Gautreaux
Matron of Honor
My Matron of Honor – Katherine Katherine and I met when we were four years old in our very first dance class—and we’ve been inseparable ever since. Even though she refused to sleep over at my house for years (her loss!), I didn’t mind, because I basically lived at hers. From the very beginning, our friendship felt effortless, like we were always meant to find each other. We grew up together sharing everything—from awkward middle school phases to high school crushes, from late-night phone calls on our landlines to hours spent playing Webkinz and Poptropica. We celebrated birthdays, holidays, and all the in-between moments side by side. Our families blended so naturally that Katherine has always felt more like another sister than just a best friend. What makes Katherine so special isn’t just the years we’ve shared, but the unwavering loyalty, laughter, and support she brings into my life. Through every stage of life, from childhood to adulthood, she’s been a constant source of love and grounding. After 20+ years of friendship, there’s no one else I’d rather have standing beside me. She’s been there for every chapter so far, and I can’t wait to have her by my side as I start this next one. -Love, Tori
Dom Padova
Groomsman
I met Dom in college at The Catholic University of America. Dom is the friend who’s always down for good vibes, great laughs, and any jam band show within a reasonable driving distance — or not so reasonable, honestly he brings easygoing energy, quick humor, and the spirit of someone who knows how to make every moment fun. -Colin
Abby Spielman
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid – Abby Abby and I officially became best friends in high school when we bonded as co-managers of the cross country team—but I secretly admired her long before that. In middle school, I was lowkey jealous that I wasn’t in her friend group. She was older, effortlessly cool, and always seemed like the most fun person in the room (spoiler: she is). From the moment we clicked, I knew Abby was one of the kindest, most genuine people I’d ever meet. She has this incredible way of making everyone feel welcome, and she becomes friends with just about anyone in five minutes flat. I’m so lucky to call her one of mine—and even luckier to have her standing beside me on such a special day. -Love, Tori
Ryan Karwacki
Groomsman
Ryan and I used to work at the same company together. We were on a project filled with many memories, mostly good. I do remember some not so good memories from that job, but I can't quite put my finger on it. Ryan has been a great friend since we met, always there for everything from my early-morning commute calls to ripping out and replacing doors at our house. -Colin
Casey Russell
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid – Casey Casey and I met freshman year at WVU after I randomly slid into her DMs on Instagram because I saw her roommate bio and thought, “I have to live with this girl.” Even though she claimed to love horror movies (which literally terrify me), I figured we’d be the perfect odd couple. Living together quickly became a nonstop adventure—endless Disney marathons, laughs, and yes, me taking great joy in hiding and scaring the crap out of her whenever possible. (I may not love horror, but I sure know how to give her a good scare!) When our freshman year ended, I was super sad we wouldn’t be roommates anymore—little did I know Casey had secretly hidden post-it notes in all my packed-up stuff with sweet messages like “I love you the most” and “You are beautiful.” I kept finding those notes months later, and each one made me smile. From roommate to best friend, and now bridesmaid, Casey has been an absolute joy to have by my side—whether I’m making her laugh or sneakily giving her a little fright. -Love, Tori
Alex Bruhn
Groomsman
Alex & I have been friends ever since our placement together on a mid-COVID aquatic center in Arlington. From jumping off the 10m dive platform at work to spending late nights in Arlington, Alex has been a great friend for over 5 years. Alex spends his time making sure he is surrounded by good people and good times. -Colin
Chaney Williams
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid – Chaney Chaney and I have been friends since birth—our moms are best friends, so we basically grew up like sisters. I’ve lost count of the number of nights I’ve spent crashing at her house. One of my favorite memories with Chaney is when we were on a catamaran boat together, sitting at the front with the goofiest goggles on, getting absolutely wrecked by waves, holding on for dear life, and laughing until we could barely breathe. That moment perfectly captures what our friendship is all about—fun, wild, and full of joy. Chaney is absolutely the wild one—always ready for an adventure while I’m usually the calm, level-headed (and sometimes very patient!) one. Somehow, that balance works perfectly for us, making our friendship feel like the perfect mix of laughter and support. I couldn’t imagine standing here on this special day without Chaney by my side. She’s not just my bridesmaid—she’s my lifelong partner-in-crime and sister in all but blood. -Love, Tori
Sean Sullivan
Groomsman
Sean is a college friend of mine from our time at The Catholic University of America. Sean is always up for an adventure — whether it’s catching a live show or hiking a new trail. He brings a laid-back energy, a love for sports, and has the best sense of humor. -Colin
Hannah Reed
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid- Hannah Hannah is my sister-in-law, married to my brother Logan, and she must be both kind and funny to handle him (and all of us!). I can’t remember when I first met her—it feels like she’s always been part of the family. We both work in the school system with Pre-K kids, so we bond over the chaos of tiny humans and the wild stories that come with it. One of my favorite memories with Hannah is convincing her to get her nails done before Logan proposed. She wanted a hideous green color for St. Patrick’s Day, but I convinced her to go with a pretty pink. Little did she know, it was my way of saving the proposal photos—Logan never even thought about the nails! Hannah isn’t just family by marriage—she’s a sister to me, and I’m so grateful to have her by my side today and always. -Love, Tori
Logan Reed
Groomsman
Groomsman – Logan (Older Brother to Tori) Logan is the classic older brother—sarcastic, a bit of a know-it-all (with love), and always convinced he’s right… even when he’s absolutely not. We’ve always been pretty different—he’s all about video games, anime, and Pokémon, while I was more into glitter, Barbies, and everything pink. Growing up, we lived upstairs together and shared a bathroom—which unfortunately means I’ve seen his bare butt more times than I care to admit, thanks to his lifelong habit of not locking the door. Still recovering. But under all the sarcasm and sibling bickering, Logan has always been a steady, protective presence in my life. He may tease me endlessly, but I know without a doubt he’d show up for me anytime, anywhere. Having him by my side today feels so special—not just because he’s my brother, but because he’s one of the people who’s known and loved me through every season of life. And I know he always will. -Love, Tori
Kinsey Close
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid – Kinsey Kinsey is my older sister—and if you ask her, she’ll probably say she survived being my older sister. I’ve looked up to her my whole life (not physically, though—I’ve always been taller, haha). In fact, when we dropped Kinsey off at college her freshman year, the student aides helping move people in thought I was the one starting college… while we were standing right next to each other. I followed her around constantly, tattled on her, and did anything to spend time with her, which she found annoying—but I’m sure she secretly loved it. Kinsey’s always been the wild one—full of energy and hilarious chaos. There’s never a dull moment with her, like when my tortoise Shelldon peed on her head during a Christmas photo, or when a seagull pooped on her right before we entered an amusement park. Iconic. We bickered like pros growing up, which drove our mom absolutely insane, but underneath it all, there’s always been so much love. Kinsey is one of the funniest, most magnetic people I know—she can instantly lift the mood of any room and make even the most boring situation feel like a party. She’s not just my sister—she’s one of my favorite people, and I’m so lucky to have her standing by my side. -Love, Tori
Brian Close
Groomsman
Groomsman Brian (Brother-In-Law to Tori) Brian has been around forever—he was one of my brother Logan’s best friends growing up and practically lived at our house. So when I found out he was dating my sister Kinsey, I was definitely surprised. But once I saw them together, it just clicked. They’re a perfect balance. As the little sibling, I was always hovering nearby, watching them be hilarious—even if they didn’t exactly invite me to. I still remember Kinsey filming Logan, Brian, and their friends doing ridiculous skits, like lightsaber battles pretending they were in Star Wars. And I definitely witnessed more hours of video games than I can count. Brian is calm, patient, and steady—exactly what my wild sister needs (sorry Kinsey!). But don’t let that fool you—he’s also funny, social, and always down to have a good time. He’s the kind of person I know would be there for me in a second, no questions asked. I’m so lucky to call him family—even if, in a way, he always has been. -Love, Tori
Leah Reed
Bridesmaid
Bridesmaid- Leah Leah is my younger sister, and even though we’re total opposites, I can’t imagine life without her. I’m into movies, painting, and hanging out with friends—she’s all about dragons, anime, and quiet time on her computer. I’m soft pastels, she’s dark and mysterious—and somehow, it works. Growing up, we were always together at family gatherings as the two youngest cousins, bonding over books and Nintendo. Those quiet moments built a strong connection between us. Leah may be introverted, but she’s incredibly loyal and loving to those in her circle—and I’m lucky to be in it. I’m so proud to have her by my side—not just as my sister, but as someone who truly gets me. -Love, Tori
Fernando Andrzejevski
Groomsman
Groomsman Fernando ( Unofficially Adopted Big Brother of Tori) Fernando came into our lives thanks to a foreign exchange program from Brazil, and somehow never left—and thank goodness for that. He came to live with our family when I was in 5th grade, and I still remember one of the first days he was with us: he was quietly on the computer, probably trying to process the cultural shock, while I was relentlessly begging him to jump on the trampoline with me. He was definitely overwhelmed by the loud chaos that is my family—but he still got up and jumped. From the start, Fernando has been kind, patient, and the definition of a good sport. After his exchange year ended, he returned to Brazil—but not for long. He came back to the U.S. for good when he married his high school sweetheart, Sarah. I had the joy of watching their love story unfold, and now, they have two amazing boys who I proudly call my nephews. Despite not being my blood sibling, Fernando might be my most protective brother. He’s lovingly (but seriously) threatened every guy I’ve dated—including Colin—and I know he means it. I love Fernando like family, because he is family. I’m so grateful he’ll be standing with me on my wedding day. -Love, Tori
Tally Reed
Mother of the Bride
Mother of the Bride-Tally Mom. The word hardly covers everything she is to me. She’s been my biggest cheerleader, my life coach, and the CEO of unsolicited “mom advice” — whether I wanted it or not. From childhood adventures to adulting struggles, she’s always been there with love, wisdom, and a well-timed reminder to wear a jacket. Mom’s kindness and strength have shaped who I am today. She’s the heart of our family—bringing everyone together with her warmth and laughter. I’ve always noticed that she shines brightest when our family is gathered with her best friends and their families—whether it’s at a lively party or a fun vacation. That’s when she truly lets loose, laughs the hardest, and smiles brighter than anyone else in the room. Honestly, those are some of my favorite memories. Having her by my side on this special day means the world to me—because I’m not scared to live life knowing she’s right behind me, ready to catch me if I fall. She’s the biggest safety net of all… and the loudest one reminding me to brush my hair and to stand up straight. -Love, Tori
Debbee O'Donnell
Mother of the Groom
My mom is the heart behind so much of who I am today—the one who taught me kindness, resilience, and love. She has been my biggest supporter, my steady voice of reason, and the person who showed me what it means to put family first. Today, she’s not just standing as my mom, but as someone who has embraced this new chapter with open arms and boundless joy. We are so grateful for her love, her warmth, and the role she has played in bringing us all to this moment. -Colin
Ken Reed
Father of the Bride
Father of the Bride- Ken My dad is never serious—and honestly, I don’t think he ever plans to be. Every time I call or text him, without fail, he asks, “Who’s this?” — and he’s been doing that since I was a kid! It didn’t stop with me either; my fiancé Colin and even my friends have fallen victim to this classic dad move. Dad is larger than life and always on the go, juggling a million things at once. The only time I’ve seen him slow down is on vacation—usually on a beach somewhere, drink in one hand, speaker in the other, feet in the sand. I love hearing his wild stories with his best friends—tales from their childhood and all the crazy adventures they’ve had as adults. I’ve heard those stories a million times, but I still can’t get enough because they always make me laugh. Having him here on my wedding day means the world to me—because life with Dad is never boring, and I wouldn’t have it any other way. -Love, Tori
Brian O'Donnell
Father of the Groom
My dad is the steady presence who has shaped the man I am today—with his guidance, his humor, and the example he sets every day. He has been a role model, a supporter, and the source of countless lessons. He is not just my father, but someone who has watched me grow into the man I am. We are so grateful for his love, his wisdom, and everything he has done for our family. -Colin
