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Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. As always, your health and safety are our top priority, and we completely understand if you’re no longer able to attend. Please just let us know as soon as possible.
Update: In light of COVID-19, we wanted to let you know our wedding is going forward as planned. As always, your health and safety are our top priority, and we completely understand if you’re no longer able to attend. Please just let us know as soon as possible.
September 18, 2020
West Islip, NY
#HolyMatthewsmony

Tommy & Alexa

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Meet our friends and family who will be walking down the aisle with us, making the embarrassing speeches, and running the dance floor all night long!

Taylor

Maid of Honor

Inseparable since being on the same softball team in 2005, Taylor & Alexa made each other a promise when they were 12: if they were still best friends in 10 years, they would get matching tattoos & be in each other's weddings. Well, 15 years after that promise Taylor will be standing by Alexa's side as Maid of Honor, matching bicycle tattoos in tow.


Samantha

Bridesmaid

It's a good thing Alexa & Samantha became great friends in 2007 because, little did they know, they'd be stuck with each other forever. Alexa (& family) was beyond thrilled when Samantha started dating, & eventually married, Alexa's brother Paul. After a 4 year stint of sharing the same last name, Samantha gets to stand by Alexa's side as she changes hers!

Melissa

Bridesmaid

Long story short, this day wouldn't exist without Melissa. Besides being one of Alexa's closest friends, she's the one who first thought Alexa & Tommy should meet, having known Alexa since high school & Tommy since college. We all know how that turned out!


Shawn

Best Man

It was the year 1998, where Tommy and Shawn's friendship began. Back then, their friendship consisted of trading pokemon cards, playing super smash brothers, and watching dragon ball z anime. 20 years later, their friendship remains as strong as ever by trading workout routines, playing fantasy football, and still watching dragon ball z (sorry Alexa).

Alex

Groomsman

In 2011, Tommy and Alex met while pledging a fraternity at St. Joseph's College. Alex introduced himself as an Italian fellow, commonly mistaken for Leonardo DiCaprio. They knew they were destined to be close friends when they both shared "Best Personality" high school superlatives while attending Sachem High Schools. 8 years later only two things remain constant: 1) Tommy and Alex's friendship 2) Alex's great eyebrows.


Paul

Groomsman

Paul is not only Alexa's only sibling, but one of her best friends. When it comes to Tommy, however, it's still unclear whether the threats are sincere or out of love. Must be a big brother thing.

Harper

Flower Girl

Alexa & Tommy's niece, Alexa's goddaughter, & quite possibly the cutest kid on the planet. Harper is the only person Alexa is willing to hand over the spotlight to on the big day, & Harper has no problem accepting it!

For all the days along the way
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