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FAQs

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Where is your website?

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https://tomandcourt.com

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What’s the dress code?

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Black tie optional. Stylish cocktail attire encouraged. Ladies: Glamorous, but not gala. Gents: Tux or sharp suit.

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Where are the ceremony and reception taking place?

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Please refer to the Schedule section for full details.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We’d love you to unplug and be present. Our photographer and videographer will capture it all — phones back out for the party and for the photo prop areas!

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When should I arrive?

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We recommend arriving at least 15–30 minutes before the ceremony begins to allow time for parking and seating.

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes, the venue has valet parking provided by us! Street parking is also potentially available

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Can I wear white / red / whatever?

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The wedding palette includes sage, cream, and gold, but feel free to wear what makes you feel fabulous! We only ask you avoid wearing all white.

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Will there be food and drinks?

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Absolutely! Come hungry and thirsty. Heavy hors d'oeuvres will be provided during cocktail hour along with complimentary drinks. Dinner will be plated with guest selection day-of and complimentary drinks. Dessert and late night snacks will follow.

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I have dietary restrictions. What should I do?

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Our menu will include a vegetarian option. Please let us know if you need something and we will work with the vendor to accomodate!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP digitally via our website with all requested details by Friday 22 August 2025

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your invitation included a guest, you’ll see that option when RSVPing

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Can I bring my kids?

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Our wedding is an adults-only celebration unless otherwise noted on your invite

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Is there a hotel block?

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Yes! The Logan Inn has a room block and the New Hope Inn and Suites is also recommended. Details are on the Travel page.

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Will the ceremony be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be outdoors, weather permitting, with an indoor backup plan. The reception is entirely indoors.

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Is there an after-party?

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Shhh… yes. But you’ll have to find the secret page and follow the clues.

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Will there be dancing?

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Absolutely. Bring your moves. Challenge Tom to a dance-off. Start a conga line.

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Do you have a Registry? How will gifts be handled?

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Yes! We’ve traded toasters & towels for plane tickets & pints. In lieu of traditional gifts, we’re asking guests to contribute to our honeymoon fund as we celebrate our Celtic roots with a once-in-a-lifetime trip to Ireland. We kindly ask that no physical gifts be brought to the ceremony. If you'd prefer to send something by mail, we're happy to provide our address upon request. Cards are always welcome and appreciated! Thank you for helping us start married life with adventure, love, and maybe a little Guinness.