Parking comes at a premium in Virginia Beach. The ceremony and reception will be held at the same venue. The venue is valet only for $16. There are self parking garages that cost around $20 for the evening. Consider carpooling or using uber/lyft.
Seating for the wedding will begin promptly at 4:30 and the wedding will begin at 5:00. Please be prompt as you don't want to miss the ceremony :-)