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What is the dress code?What is the dress code?

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We invite all our guests to join us in formal attire, black tie optional. Tuxes and floor length gowns are not required, but are welcome. At minimum, suits are required for men and dresses are required for women. We have worked hard to put together this formal event, so please do not wear the following: jeans, hats, casual wear, sun dresses, or the color white (white dress shirts are okay!). We can't wait to see you dressed up!

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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?

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As much as we love all the little ones in our lives, please use this as a parent's night out! We hope that you can enjoy this kid-free night with us.

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Can I bring a date?Can I bring a date?

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We are excited to celebrate our love story with those closest to us. Please refer to your official invite to confirm the number of guests included in your invitation. This can be found on your paper RSVP card or digitally on our RSVP page.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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No! We kindly ask that all phones and cameras are turned off during the ceremony. We have a very talented photographer who we trust fully, and we do not want electronics in our photos. Please stay present with us during the most important part of our day, and we will make sure to share the memories once available. Phones and cameras are welcome the rest of the evening. Feel free to grab us for a quick pic in the photo booth during the reception!

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Will there be parking?Will there be parking?

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Yes! There will be plenty of parking on property. The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all be housed on the same property. Please be mindful that there is a wedding at our venue the day after ours, so any cars will need to be removed by early Sunday morning.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin at 4:00 PM sharp. Please arrive between 3:30 - 3:45 PM to allow our bridal party to appropriately line up for their entrance. Late arrivals may not be guaranteed a seat in the ceremony, as it may disrupt the timing and flow of our day.

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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?

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Kindly RSVP by August 8, 2026.

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What vibe should I expect?What vibe should I expect?

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We will be having a formal ceremony, European garden style cocktail hour, and turning up the music for a club style reception after dinner. Come ready to dance and party! We'll be celebrating on the dance floor all night long!

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Will there be transportation to and from hotels?Will there be transportation to and from hotels?

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Although there will not be a formal shuttle service, Uber and Lyft drivers are readily available in the area.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please include any allergies or special requests when submitting your RSVP. We will have a variety of options to accommodate all our guests.

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Will there be alcohol?Will there be alcohol?

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Absolutely... come ready to have a great time! Beer, wine, and cocktails will be available, as well as many non-alcoholic options.

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What is the after party and how can I attend?What is the after party and how can I attend?

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Please join us at Joe's Grille in Westfield (2 miles South of the venue) immediately following the end of the reception to keep the party going! Joe's holds a special place in our heart, being home to many dates and late nights from the very first days of our relationship to present day. Food and drinks will be available for purchase, and Joe's will provide free transportation back to your hotel (limited to 10 mile radius). Come and go as you please - no obligation, no timeline, no RSVP!