FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

We will begin collecting RSVPs in early 2026 when formal invitations are delivered. However, if you already know that you will be unable to attend, we kindly ask that you notify Sarah or Andrew directly. While we will miss celebrating with you, we sincerely appreciate your advance notice.

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Is there a dress code?

Answer

Yes! We kindly invite our guests to dress for a sophisticated summer evening by the lake. Gentlemen are requested to wear suits and ties or tuxedos. Ladies are requested to wear elegant summer gowns or dressy separates. As our celebration will be held outdoors on grass, we recommend choosing footwear that is comfortable and suitable for the setting.

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Can I bring a date?

Answer

We kindly ask that only those specifically addressed on your invitation attend our wedding. While we wish we could celebrate with everyone, we’re unable to accommodate additional guests or plus-ones. Thank you so much for understanding—we’re truly grateful to celebrate this special day with you!

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones, but we’re only able to include children who are specifically named on the invitation. Thanks for understanding and helping us keep things simple—we’re excited to celebrate with you!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please plan to arrive at the Grosse Pointe Club by 4 p.m. to allow enough time to be seated before the ceremony begins. Valet parking will be provided, but we encourage guests to utilize rideshare services where possible to minimize traffic congestion.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotel to the venue location?

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At this time, we do not plan to provide transportation from the hotel to the venue location. We recommend utilizing rideshare services (Uber, Lyft) - the Westin Book Cadillac (and other hotels in downtown Detroit) are approximately 15-20 minutes from the Grosse Pointe Club.