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When should I RSVP by?

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To help us with our planning, please RSVP to the events as soon as possible. However, the deadline is November 17, 2025. While we have a bit of flexibility in guest count, we want to provide our venues and vendors with an accurate number in a timely manner. We hope you can understand.

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Is there a dress code?

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We would love to see our family and friends get dressed up with us for our big day! We envision our guests bring Formal garden party vibes. We're thinking suit and tie or tux, we're thinking gorgeous any-length dress or colorful pant suit - anything that will make you feel confident and comfortable! Please be aware this event is in winter, and will be a mix of outdoors and indoors with the ceremony exclusively on the lawn. There will be heaters, but we do suggest a coat (bonus points if it's fur).

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Can I bring a date?

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We are so excited to celebrate this day with our nearest and dearest, and are hoping to keep the guest list limited to those on the invitation. We will be going out after the reception, so tell your mom 'n em to come through then!

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Are children welcome?

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We will have several children who will be part of the ceremony that will be in attendance, and we encourage y'all to make the best decision for yourselves based on your circumstances. That said, New Orleans is a city full of adult-only nightlife and we hope you can spend the weekend relaxing and reveling in that with us as you see fit.

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