FAQs

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your invitation says “and Guest” or includes another guest's name, then yes! Otherwise, we’re keeping it intimate and sticking to those invited on the envelope.

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Are my kids invited?

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We love your little ones! Some children are invited, and their names will be listed on the RSVP page. If you’re unsure, feel free to reach out and we’ll be happy to clarify. We hope this helps everyone plan ahead comfortably!

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What’s the weather like?

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It’s Arizona in May, so expect plenty of sunshine and warm to hot temperatures, often in the 80s to 90s during the day and cooler in the evenings. The ceremony and cocktail hour will have outdoor elements, so breathable fabrics and comfort-conscious choices are encouraged. We’ll have plenty of shade, water, and ways to keep cool — but definitely plan ahead for the desert heat!

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What should I wear?

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The dress code is cocktail. Think elevated suits, dresses, and jumpsuits. Tuxes and gowns are also welcome. We encourage spring-appropriate styles with floral patterns and breathable fabrics to complement the celebration. To keep the look cohesive, please avoid wearing light blue, white, or anything too casual (please no jeans or shorts). Outfit approvals aren’t required, but if you are not sure that your outfit will fit the vibe, feel free to check out our wedding attire inspiration page (link below) or check in with the bride—she enthusiastically welcomes the chance to weigh in. Thanks for helping us set the perfect mood for the day! https://www.pinterest.com/thekottingers/kottinger-wedding-attire-inspo/

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What kind of food will be served?

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We’re planning a full dinner featuring some of the Bride & Groom’s favorite cuisine — Italian! The meal will be served family-style, so everyone can share and enjoy dishes together as one big family. You can expect plenty of delicious options, plus a few fun surprises. Come hungry and maybe save room for seconds!

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Will there be vegetarian, vegan, or gluten-free options?

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Yes! We’ve made sure to include options for vegetarian, vegan, and gluten-free guests. If this applies to you—or if you have any allergies or other dietary restrictions—please let us know when you RSVP so we can plan accordingly and make sure you’re taken care of.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes — cheers! We’ll have a full open bar with a curated selection of beer, wine, and cocktails. We’ll also have plenty of non-alcoholic options, so everyone stays refreshed.

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Will transportation be provided?

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We have set up a discounted Lyft event code for transportation to and from the venue. Please see the travel page for more details. Additionally, cars are allowed to be left at the venue overnight, but must be picked up the next morning.

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Where should I stay?

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We’ve reserved room blocks with a discounted room rate at the Arizona Grand Resort & Spa for the week of the wedding. Pre- and post-wedding events will be hosted at this resort and you can find the booking link on the travel page. If you’re only planning to attend the wedding itself and not the additional events during the week, there are also other hotel options listed on the travel page.

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Will there be other events during the week?

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Yes! We’re planning some fun pre- and post-wedding events. Please see details for these events listed on the Schedule page.