FAQs

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Where is the venue?

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The wedding will be held at The Farmhouse, in Plainfield, IL. The address is 12729 Naperville Rd, Plainfield, IL 60585.

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What is the dress code?

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This is a formal / black-tie optional event, and would love to see our friends and family dress up with us! For women, this includes gowns, formal midi or full-length dresses, or elegant cocktail attire. For men, suits or tuxedos are appropriate. Please, no white, jeans, hats, or casual wear.

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What time should I arrive?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30 PM. To allow time for parking and seating, we recommend arriving at least 30 to 45 minutes early. Please note that any guest(s) that arrive after the ceremony start time will be kindly asked to wait outside of the venue until after the ceremony has finished.

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outdoors, with the reception taking place indoors. Weather accommodations are in place if needed. Since early May evenings can cool off, we recommend bringing a light wrap or jacket.

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Where should I park?

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Guests may park in the front parking lot at The Farmhouse. Guests staying at our recommended hotel may take advantage of the shuttle service provided to and from the venue.

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Where should I stay?

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We’ve reserved a room block at Hotel Indigo Naperville Riverwalk, which includes shuttle transportation to and from the venue. Full details can be found under the Accommodations tab.

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding will be adults only, with the exception of children who are part of the wedding party. We hope you enjoy a fun night out celebrating with us!

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Due to venue capacity, we are only able to accommodate guests formally listed on your invitation. Plus ones have been extended to guests who are married, live together, or are in long-term relationships. If you received a plus one, it will appear with your name once you RSVP.

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When should I RSVP?

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Please RSVP by April 10th, 2026 so we can provide our vendors with an accurate headcount. Any RSVPs left incomplete after this date will be considered an automatic “decline.” Due to strict venue and catering limitations, we are unable to accommodate unlisted guests or day-of additions.

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Can I take photos/videos during the ceremony?

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We’ve hired a professional photographer and videographer to capture the ceremony. We kindly ask that phones be silenced and put away during this portion. Once the ceremony concludes, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you’d like!