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Is there a dress code?Is there a dress code?

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Our dress code is Black-Tie Optional. What is black-tie optional?.... A floor-length or tea length dress is preferred for women. However, it is acceptable to wear a cocktail dress that is midi or knee length—especially for those in their teens or younger. Spring colors are encouraged. Men should wear a tuxedo if they have one. If they don’t, they should go for a black or navy suit with a tie. Please avoid wearing jeans, flip-flops, and colors traditionally reserved for the bride. Our ceremony and cocktail hour are set to be outdoors. The grass can be soft, so we advise ladies to rethink wearing stilettos and opt for a block heel or wedge.

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When should I RSVP by?When should I RSVP by?

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We have a very limited guest count and understand that our wedding is the beginning of memorial day weekend. RSVPs are appreciated at your earliest convenience as we would like to fill any available and remaining spots with our other friends and family if possible with enough time. however, RSVPs should be submitted no later than April 23rd 2025. If you have any questions regarding this please feel free to reach out to us or those in our wedding party!

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Can I bring a date?Can I bring a date?

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Our celebration is limited with a small number of our closest friends and family. If your invite states "guest" or your plus one is listed you may bring a guest, however each spot is very precious to us and if there is any change in your headcount please let us know at your earliest convenience. We appreciate you all for coming to be a part of our special day and cannot wait to celebrate with you!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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We ask that you arrive no later than 30 minutes before the ceremony start time to get a parking spot and find your seats. Our processional will begin at 4:30 so we ask guests to arrive no later than 4pm.

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Are you registered? Where?Are you registered? Where?

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Yes! We are registered through Zola and have linked this to our website! You can find most everything through the Zola registry however we are also registered at Crate & Barrel, Pottery Barn, and William & Sonoma.

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Are kids welcome?Are kids welcome?

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To limit distractions & interruptions for our wedding celebration we are limiting children to our immediate family only.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes we do! We have reserved room blocks at the hotels listed under the Accommodations tab above and can reserve rooms through the provided links! If you would like other accommodations for hotels or stays near to the venue, feel free to reach out to either of us or our bridal party!

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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There is Parking conveniently located in Separk mansions back parking lot. This can be accessed through the hidden driveway on the right-facing side of the mansion.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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We are currently in the process of deciding on if we will host a welcome party for the night before. We will send out details when selections have been made!

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What type of food will you be serving?What type of food will you be serving?

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During cocktail hour there will be passed hors d'oeuvres along with refreshments and other drink selections available from our bar. We have additionally decided to offer Salmon and Steak Medallions as our main course for our reception along with several side selections, a salad and a bread selection. If there is any dietary restrictions that we should let our catering team know about please let us know at your earliest convenience!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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We would like to try our best to accommodate any dietary restrictions. When completing your online or paper RSVP their is a section to add a comment or note to the couple. Please provide your dietary restrictions so we can relay this to our chefs and try to accommodate this to the best of our ability.