FAQs
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Is there a dress code?
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Cocktail or semi-formal attire is the vibe—come dressed up, but make it fun! We want you to feel like the best version of yourself, whether that means a funky suit, a bold dress, or something uniquely you... just, you know, no jeans or t-shirts. If you have any questions about what to wear, feel free to reach out to the bride or maid of honor—we’re happy to help!
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Can I bring my kids?
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We love your little ones, but our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. Our venue is 18 and over, so even the cutest kiddos will have to sit this one out. Think of it as a well-deserved night off—an excuse to dress up, enjoy some great food and drinks, and dance the night away without a bedtime to worry about. We appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you!
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Can I bring a plus-one?
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Only if your invitation explicitly says so! If you're unsure, please reach out to the bride or maid of honor. If your invite says just your name, then congrats—you’re the main character for the evening. 🎉
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What’s the parking situation?
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Our venue has very limited parking (20-25 spots), and the wedding party & immediate family will be snagging most of them. We strongly encourage ride-sharing, carpooling, or summoning a noble steed via Uber or Lyft. Trust us, you’ll want a ride home after enjoying that open bar. 🍹
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Wait… did you say open bar?
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Oh, we sure did. We’ll have a fully stocked open bar (you're welcome), plus plenty of non-alcoholic options. Tip your bartenders! They’re working hard to keep your glass full and your dance moves questionable. 🥂🕺🏻
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How do I RSVP?
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The RSVP tab will be available by the end of August! Once it’s live, you’ll be able to let us know you’re coming and share any dietary restrictions. Until then, sit tight, mark your calendars, and start planning that fire outfit. 🔥
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What if I have dietary restrictions?
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We want everyone to enjoy the food as much as the party, so if you have any dietary restrictions or allergies, just let us know when you RSVP. Our caterer is ready to accommodate—whether you're gluten-free, dairy-free, vegetarian, or on a strict diet of “only foods that pair well with champagne.” 🍾 We’ve got you covered!
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Where should I stay?
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We don’t have a hotel block, but Hotel Circle (where the venue is) has plenty of options! Check out the "Travel" tab on this website for recommendations.
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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
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We love that you want to capture the moment, but we kindly ask that you keep your phones away during the ceremony so our photographer can work their magic. After that? Snap away, tag us, and make those Instagram stories shine (#TheEastmans2025).
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What happens after the wedding ends?
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Due to San Diego's noise ordinance (boo, we know), the wedding wraps up at 10:00 PM—but don’t you worry, the party continues at Punch Bowl Social in downtown San Diego (21+ only). Come ready to keep the celebration going.
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Any plans for the day after?
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Oh, you know it! Join us for a boozy drag brunch at Lips in North Park on November 8th. Expect unlimited mimosas, fierce performances, and comedy that’s… let’s just say, not for the faint of heart. While Lips is technically all-ages, the humor is very much not, so we’d recommend this as an adults-only event.
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Where’s your registry?
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We are registered at Zola, or you can click the "Registry" tab at the top of this page.
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Who do I contact with questions?
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Before the RSVP deadline, Morgan (the bride) is your go-to. After that, please reach out to the maid of honor or mother of the bride (contact info coming soon).