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🤍RSVPs are closed! We can not wait to celebrate with you! 🤍
🤍RSVPs are closed! We can not wait to celebrate with you! 🤍
November 15, 2025
Topeka, KS
#CheersToTheDeers

Mary Kathryn & Isaac KelsoMary Kathryn & Isaac Kelso

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What should I wear?What should I wear?

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Wedding casual attire — button-ups, slacks, or dresses in neutral tones (please avoid white and jeans); comfortable but polished. Note that some events may be outside, weather permitting. Make sure to bring your dancing shoes!!!

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What are the colors for the wedding?What are the colors for the wedding?

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Neutral fall tones. Highlighting colors like sage green, terracotta, and beige.

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How early should I arrive?How early should I arrive?

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You may begin to arrive and find your seats as early as 4:00 pm. Ceremony will begin at 4:30 pm.

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What food will be on the menu?What food will be on the menu?

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We will be offering honey pecan chicken, sweet pepper pork tenderloin, parsley carrots, and au gratin potatoes. We will also have rolls and various sweet treats available!

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Are drinks provided?Are drinks provided?

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Yes! We will have an open bar with various beer, wine, and cocktail options. We will also have non-alcoholic options as well.

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Where should I stay in Topeka?Where should I stay in Topeka?

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Please visit the Travel tab and view some recommended hotels in Topeka. We would also encourage you to check out some nearby AirBnBs.

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Do I need to RSVP if I can not attend?Do I need to RSVP if I can not attend?

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Yes, we please ask that you RSVP if you can attend of not so we can ensure that we have accurate number for our vendors and seating.

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Where do I park?Where do I park?

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There is an onsite parking lot at the venue and an open parking lot across the street that will be available.

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Are kids allowed?Are kids allowed?

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Yes! We are having a family friendly wedding. There will be a few games to play, fun music, and good vibes for the whole crew!

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Can I bring a plus one?Can I bring a plus one?

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To ensure we can best host all of our loved ones, we’re only able to accommodate the guests listed on the RSVP page. We truly appreciate your understanding.

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What happens if I miss the RSVP deadline?What happens if I miss the RSVP deadline?

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Due to vendor requirements and seating arrangements, we’re unable to accommodate guests who RSVP after the deadline. Please be sure to respond by October 4th so we can plan accordingly—we’d love to celebrate with you!

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What if I RSVP “yes” but can no longer attend?What if I RSVP “yes” but can no longer attend?

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If your plans change after you RSVP, please let us know as soon as possible. This helps us update our headcount with our vendors and make any necessary adjustments.

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Will there be assigned seating?Will there be assigned seating?

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During the ceremony, we will have reserved seats for immediate family. The rest will be open seating. For the reception dinner, we will have assigned seating with place cards at the tables.

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