Please fill out the RSVP form on this website (you can find it on the front page or under the rsvp section of the website). Simply enter your first and last name and your invite will pull up. Let Thandi know if you encounter any issues or have any questions/concerns via text or email (417-818-7464, thandinelson04@gmail.com).
You can decline through the RSVP link or by texting Thandi or Josiah. We completely understand that some of you won’t be able to make it, but please let us know either way so we don’t have to follow up or make any assumptions. We will look forward to seeing you whenever we next get the chance!
Please RSVP by April 17th.
The dress code for the wedding is semi-formal. We suggest button-down shirts with khaki pants for men and sundresses for women. Keep in mind that the reception will be held in Victorian style tea rooms. So, feel free to lean into garden party attire if that's your thing!
If you need someone to pick you up from the airport or have other questions regarding travel, please contact Josiah by phone (+1 903 215-7068) or email (josiahleeisme@gmail.com). He will take care of all transportation details.
We ask that you not take any photos/videos during the ceremony so as to keep that moment sacred, but you are more than welcome to take pictures beforehand and afterwards! We invite you to take pictures and videos during the reception! Keep in mind that there will be a professional photographer at the wedding, so you will have access to lots of meaningful pictures from the event whether or not you take them on your own device.
Yes. We are registered at Walmart (https://www.walmart.com/registry/WR/34566774-7983-4a41-8c4f-b0d7ff358a18).
Yes! There will be a jar with Thandi's name on it and a jar with Josiah's name on it. Whoever has the most money in their jar at the end of the night gets a piece of cake smashed in their face! Help us decide by bringing any spare change you have.
Yes! There are three onsite parking lots at the Mansion.
You can find more information about accommodations under the "Travel" tab on our website, but our top recommendations are Anglers Lodge and Vīb Best Western - both just a short distance from the venue.
The ceremony and reception will be indoors.
We are happy to welcome your plus one! To ensure we can accommodate everyone comfortably, please let us know at least one month in advance if you plan to bring a guest. If you have any questions, feel free to reach out to Thandi by phone at (417) 818-7464 or email at thandinelson04@gmail.com. We look forward to celebrating with you!
We want our wedding to be a safe, enjoyable time for everyone. Please contact Thandi by phone (417-818-7464) or email (thandinelson04@gmail.com) as soon as possible if you have any allergies or dietary restrictions so we can accommodate for you. The sooner we know, the better we can plan!
No. There will not be any alcohol at the wedding.
Unfortunately, the Mansion does not allow any pets on the premises whatsoever. We ask that you please abide these rules out of respect for the owner.
Our wedding colors are sage and rose, but feel free to wear whatever you like—no need to match! Just one rule: leave the white to the bride 😉.
Please contact Joan Nelson by email (brettnjoan@me.com) or Thandi Nelson via text (417-818-7464) if you have further questions.