Wedding Party

Katrina Havens

Mother of the Bride

Claire Ramsbottom

Mother of the Groom

Charles "Chalie" Havens

Father of the Bride

Robert "Bob" Rodecker

Father of the Groom

Nadia Havens

Maid of Honor

One of my greatest joys in life is getting to be an older sister, and I have Nadia to thank for that. I deeply admire Nadia’s drive and determination, and I feel so lucky to have her in my life. Nadia has the biggest heart of anyone I’ve ever met, and she is fiercely loyal to all those who are lucky enough to be loved by her. Nadia constantly amazes me as she continues to work toward her 4th and 5th marathon races in 2024, and she challenges me to be the best version of myself always. I love getting to watch both my siblings grow , and I am so thankful to have them by my side. Love you endlessly, Nadia. Thank you for being the best Maid of Honor.

Peter Coner

Best Man

Peter and I met playing frisbee at Emmanuel (it really is a great way to meet folks). We lived together for 3 years, and Peter became one of my closest friends. He is nice to his core, and has always been a role model for living by his values, and doing the right thing. I can talk to him about anything; our phone calls span books, ethics, sports, games, and cats. Peter is an amazing friend, and has always shown love and support to Tatiana and I's relationship and life journey. He and his partner Katie, live in Boston with their cat, Milk Baby, and we look forward for them to come be a part of our wedding. Love you!

Kara Rodecker

Bridesmaid

Kara is the oldest sister I’ve always dreamed of. Korey and I often talk about how important our siblings are to us, and Kara has been such a rock for both of us in our growth throughout our relationship. Kara has a natural gift of making others feel safe, seen, celebrated and welcome. Spending any amount of time with Kara truly feels like a warm embrace, and it’s been such a joy getting to see her be a new mother to Winona. Thank you for all the love, validation , and support from just a phone call away for us, Kara. We love you so much.

Kevin Rodecker

Groomsman

Kevin has always been so much more to me than can be conveyed in the word “brother”. Through the years he has been an inspiration to me; introducing me to lacrosse, video games, cooking, and just about every other extracurricular interest through my childhood. He has been my best friend, my co-conspirator, my confidant, and my mentor. He has raised an amazing daughter in Hailey, and has really helped show me the kind of father I would like to be someday. He always picks up the phone, and talks me through how to tackle home projects. Anytime I talk to Kevin, I feel so lucky to have a brother that cares about others so deeply. Kevin always makes Tatiana and I feel so loved, and our life we are building together is so much more special to have him in it.

Gavin Havens

Groomsman

I’ve been fortunate to be with Tatiana long enough that I have known Gavin since he was in middle school. He has gone from being “Tatiana’s younger brother” to a brother of my own. He is a kind, welcoming soul, and has got to be one of the most subtly funny people I’ve ever met. He shares my love for baked ziti and breakfast sandwiches, and every time I see him I’m reminded of how awesome our newly joint family is. He is also an incredibly talented hockey player, and I’ve gotten the chance to see him play at increasingly competitive and talented levels over the years. Gaining Gavin as a younger brother is an absolute joy, and I can’t be more excited for him to be a part of our celebrations.

Dana Prisloe

Bridesmaid

I like to think Dana is the friend I’ve been waiting my whole life for, and I feel so lucky that graduate school brought them into my life. Dana and I met in the UVM HESA program and I don’t know if I would’ve graduated without her. Dana is a fellow reader and baker, and is Willow’s third favorite person. Thank you so much for being part of this day, and every day, of our lives, Dana. We love you dearly!

Lauren Ciccolini

Bridesmaid

Lauren and I go all the way back to middle school, and I am so grateful to have been able to grow alongside her all these years. I had the honor of being Lauren’s Maid of Honor in her wedding last August, and I’m so excited to have her stand beside us at our wedding. Lauren resides in New Jersey with her husband and is an avid reader. Lauren keeps me grounded and I will be forever grateful for our three hour FaceTime calls. Thank you for being such a wonderful, life long friend Lauren. Love you so much!

Ryan Donovan

Groomsman

Ryan is dear to our hearts, not only as my brother-in-law, but an amazing friend. When he and Kara married, I remember being over the moon that he finally was officially joining our family. Ryan is someone I resonate deeply with. We share life and family goals; we love a good well-constructed fantasy world; and a board game that takes 4 hours sounds like a good time. Most importantly, he wears his love for Kara on his sleeve. Ryan has taught me so much about how to be a good partner and husband to Tatiana. I'm thankful everyday that Kara met him. Now that they have an amazing baby daughter, I get to watch and learn from him being a wonderful dad. And seeing his love grow for his family only grows my own love. We love you Ryan :)

Katie LaMarre

Bridesmaid

I was lucky enough to meet Katie during her visits to see Peter at Emmanuel, and she quickly developed into being one of my favorite people ever. Katie never fails to put a smile on anyone’s face, and I always look forward to getting to spend time talking with her about all things books, movies, music, and more. I mean truly what isn’t there to love about Katie? I am so thankful that Korey and Peter’s friendship gave me the gift of Katie in my life as I think my world would be a lot dimmer without her shine. Thanks for all you’ve done to support us, Katie. We love you!

Akiv Carries

Groomsman

Akiv is my oldest friend- we’ve been close since middle school, and have known each other even longer than that. He was always that friend that no matter what we did that day, or the day prior, we could just continue to spend time and recharge in each other’s company. He became not just a best friend to me, but friends with my whole family, and always makes his love for the people he cares about known. He is easily the most self- disciplined and driven people I know. I am in awe of him every day that he runs his own business, and still makes time to visit friends and loved ones and stay up to date on One Piece.

Kelbi Magnuson

Bridesmaid

Kelbi is truly the hardest working, most kind hearted soul. I am so amazed and impressed by Kelbi’s determination to follow her dreams and she will always show up for those she loves, no matter what. We met Kelbi playing ultimate frisbee (frisbaes) at Emmanuel College, and she now resides in the Midwest. Kelbi is currently in medical school at Northwestern and she also has her pilots license. We love you so much Kelbi and feel so lucky to have you in our lives.

Matthew "Mousecop" O'Brien

Groomsman

Matt was one of our first friends that Tati and I made together at Emmanuel. We played frisbee together, and Matt has always been a steady, warm, and supportive friend. He has a talent for wearing just a flannel in the dead of winter and still breaking a sweat. We share a passion for reading Sci-fi and fantasy, and each time we get together, I am reminded that just sharing a space with Matt brings me happiness. He is a kind soul and a great listener, and has a heartwarming, contagious, and wonderful laugh.

Hannah Lynch

Bridesmaid

Hannah is one of my dearest friends and she is a ray of sunshine. We met during our time at Emmanuel College and shared a very special handshake in a well in Kells, Ireland that folklore says bonds us for life. Hannah is currently living it up in Austin, TX with their cat, Backpack. What I love most about Hannah is how deeply she loves and cares for everyone around her. Thanks for being part of our day, Hannah!

Max Meola

Groomsman

I met Max (and Tom) working at a lunch spot in Boston while I was in college. For a job we would describe less than favorably, we sure did have a lot of fun when we worked together. Max makes his friends feel valued and cared about, and is one of the most fun people I have ever been around. Wherever he goes, he brings positivity, warmth, and the desire to cook delicious food. Just like me, Max has ascended to cat-fatherhood with a passion: he and his partner Kaycee have two adorable cats, Ollie & Gus. Every time we talk or get together, I’m reminded that what started as part time job, gave me friends for life.

Jordan Long

Officiant

Once you meet Jordan, it’s clear why he is such a good friend, and why he is the officiant for our wedding. We met playing ultimate frisbee, when Tatiana and I were in our freshman year. Jordan has this ability to interact with any person in a room, and make them feel welcomed and a part of a bigger, connected group. As new college students, there couldn’t have been a better friend to find. He introduced us, and our friends, to hot air ballooning in Post Mills, VT. Annual trips became not only an opportunity to engage with an incredibly cool and niche hobby, but to create a space as friends that we could be unapologetically ourselves. When Jordan isn’t officiating weddings, he flies planes and balloons. We are so lucky to have a friend in him, and appreciate all the help he has given us to guide and plan our ceremony. Thank you Jordan!

Tom Flynn

Groomsman

I met Tom (and Max) working in food service during college. Tom immediately was clearly a friend that I could speak honestly with, have a laugh, and talk with for hours about our favorite anime. Tom lives in Boston with his partner Amelia, and his massive collection of manga. Tom is full of love, and is one of the most easy going, relaxing people to be around. Whether it’s King Richard’s fair or making tacos, whenever we get together it’s the best of times.

Jon Sung

Groomsman

Jon is a wonderful, fun-loving, and constantly supportive friend. He was one of Tatiana's first friends at Emmanuel, and helped us both feel included and welcomed into the eclectic group that was EC Ultimate. Jon is always someone to bring a smile to my face, and has a talent for playing the *exactly* right song for any moment, no matter what the song or moment is. He now resides in Aurora, Colorado with his partner Shai, and continues to be a great friend from any distance :)

Hailey Rodecker

Flower Girl

Winona Donovan

Flower Girl