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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by March 18th, 2026.

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Can I bring a date? What about my kids?

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Unfortunately, due to our venue's limited capacity, we are unable to extend plus ones or include children, unless otherwise specified in your invitation. We appreciate your understanding, and look forward to an intimate evening!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We strongly recommend staying at Kilkea Castle, where we have a room block and all events will be held. However, if you wish to stay elsewhere, we also recommend Clanard Court Hotel, which is approximately a 10 minute drive from Kilkea Castle.

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Is there a dress code?

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The dress code for our wedding is black tie optional attire: floor-length or tea-length gowns, tuxedos or dark suits, please. The dress code for our welcome dinner at Hermione's is cocktail attire: mid-length dresses, formal jumpsuits, suits, and formal separates are all welcome.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive at least 15 minutes prior to the ceremony start time to get settled in!

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be held outdoors in the Rose Garden, weather permitting. Please keep the grass in mind when making shoe choices! The reception will be held indoors.

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I have a food allergy or dietary restriction, can I make a special request?

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All allergy and dietary restrictions will be requested from guests during dinner by the staff and accommodated accordingly.

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Are you registered? Where?

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Your presence is a present but for those of you who still wish to give a gift, our registry is on our wedding website. We are registered at Crate & Barrel and Target, and have a honeymoon fund through withjoy.com.

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Anything else we should know?

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Weddings in Ireland are slightly different from American weddings! The overall structure will be familiar, however, certain portions of the day may be longer or run a little differently from what you're used to. It will be a different experience for us as well! We promise to keep you well fed and entertained and look forward to spending our special day with you!

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