10:00 am - 1:00 pm
Before the wedding weekend officially begins, we’ll gather at the Whirlgig to set up and decorate the reception space to prepare the hall for Saturday’s celebration. This also gives the couple time to settle into the lakehouse and prepare for the weekend ahead. Who is Invited Close friends and family who are helping with reception setup. Many hands make light work, and we’re grateful for the help of our family and friends in preparing the space for the weekend. Timeline 11:00 AM – 2:00 PM Reception hall decorating and setup Tables, décor, signage, and general preparations. Actions / To-Dos Helpers may assist with: Setting tables and centerpieces Placing décor and signage Arranging reception layout Organizing supplies for Saturday
2:00 pm - 4:00 pm
Casual and comfortable. Bring clothes suitable for: Swimming, Relaxing outdoors, Preparing for the ceremony later in the evening
Friday afternoon is dedicated to preparing for the ceremony and spending relaxed time together. We'll rehearse the ceremony, begin decorating for the weekend celebrations, share a simple BBQ lunch, and enjoy swimming and lake time before getting ready for the evening Blanket Ceremony. This is a time for our closest people to help bring the weekend together and spend meaningful time by the water before the celebrations begin. Who is Invited Bridal Party + Grooms Party + Immediate Family This is a private gathering for those participating in the ceremony and helping prepare the celebration spaces. Timeline 2:00 – 4:00 PM Wedding rehearsal at the lakeside ceremony location BBQ lunch — hamburgers & hotdogs 4:00 – 6:00 PM Downtime & decorating Swimming, relaxing, and helping set up décor for the beach ceremony Actions / To-Dos Wedding party should: Arrive by 2:00 PM Help walk through ceremony roles and timing Assist with light decorating and setup
6:00 pm - 7:30 pm
Traditional or culturally inspired attire is welcome. Suggestions: Ribbon skirts, Beaded jewelry, Regalia or other cultural clothing, Meaningful personal items
A sacred family ceremony honoring tradition, culture, and the joining of our families. As the sun sets over the lake, we will gather for our Blanket Ceremony, a meaningful tradition that symbolizes the joining of two lives and two families. This intimate moment is an opportunity to reflect, honor our roots, and share this important step with those closest to us. Who is Invited Immediate Family + Wedding Party Timeline 6:30 – 7:30 PM Blanket Ceremony at sunset Guest Notes This ceremony is sacred and personal to our families. We kindly ask guests to be present and respectful during the ceremony. Actions / To-Dos Participants should: Bring cultural attire if participating Arrive ready for ceremony by 6:oo PM Be mindful that this ceremony is meaningful and reflective
9:00 am - 11:00 am
The morning will be spent getting ready with our closest friends and family. Who is Invited Bridal Party & Grooms Party only Timeline 9:00 – 11:00 AM Bride + Bridal Party Getting ready at the Lakehouse Airbnb Breakfast together Groom + Grooms Party Getting ready at Tashina's house Breakfast together
11:30 am - 12:30 pm
Private moments and photos together before the ceremony. Timeline 11:30 AM – 12:30 PM First look and portraits by the lake
1:00 pm - 3:00 pm
Semi-formal / comfortable outdoor attire
A small and intimate ceremony for close family. Who is Invited Invitation Only – Close Family & Wedding Party Timeline 1:00 PM Guests arrive at ceremony site 1:30 – 2:00 PM Wedding Ceremony 2:00 – 3:00 PM Family photos and group photos Guest Notes This ceremony is intentionally small so we can share the moment closely with family.
4:30 pm
Casual to semi-formal Come ready to celebrate and dance!
An evening of food, music, dancing, and celebration with our wider community. Who is Invited All invited guests Timeline 3:00 – 4:00 PM Transition to Whirlgig (Expect some fun traveling around town — maybe a camper ride!) 4:30 – 5:30 PM Cocktail Hour 5:30 – 6:30 PM Dinner & Toasts 6:30 – 9:30 PM Dancing & Celebration 9:30 – 10:00 PM Send-off 10:30 PM Return to Airbnb Guest Notes Miigwech for celebrating with us.
8:30 am - 1:00 pm
A relaxed morning to enjoy the lake, spend time with family, and say goodbye. Who is Invited Family and friends Timeline 8:30 – 10:00 AM Brunch at Airbnb 10:00 AM – 1:00 PM Swimming, lake activities, cleanup Guest Notes Bring: Towels Swimwear Comfortable clothes