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We are looking forward to celebrating our day with you all!
We are looking forward to celebrating our day with you all!

Tamera & Irwyn

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The Wedding Website of Tamera Scales and Irwyn Silva
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Can I RSVP online or do I have to mail in an RSVP card?

Answer

We kindly ask that you RSVP online to help us keep track of attendees for the ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception.

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What date should I RSVP by?

Answer

Please RSVP by September 27, 2025.

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Is there parking available near your wedding venue?

Answer

There is a designated parking area for the wedding located right next to the venue. Please look out for the parking signs.

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Will your wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our afternoon ceremony will be held outdoors, weather permitting, while the cocktail hour and reception will take place indoors. Guests will walk to the ceremony along paved pathways but will need to briefly step onto rocks and grass to reach their seats. For this reason, stiletto or thin heels are not recommended.

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Have you reserved blocks of rooms at any nearby hotels?

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Yes, Please refer to the travel page to access the group booking details.

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What's the dress code for your wedding? Are there any colors or styles you'd prefer me to wear?

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There are no specific color assignments for attire; however, we kindly request that you wear semi-formal attire to our wedding. Please, no white and no jeans!

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What is the weather and climate like in the area?

Answer

Winchester in the fall tends to be warmer during the day and cooler at night, so we recommend bringing a light wrap to cover bare shoulders for the outdoor ceremony.

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Am I allowed to bring a plus-one? Am I allowed to bring my children?

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We absolutely love your children, but due to space limitations and catering constraints, we are unable to accommodate children at the wedding, except for those who are part of the ceremony. Additionally, we are not able to offer extra plus-ones. The name of each invited guest is listed on your invitation, and we are unable to accommodate any additional guests.

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Will there be an open bar?

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There will be an open bar available for guests to enjoy during cocktail hour and the reception.

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Could you suggest places to eat, drink and see while I'm in town for your wedding?

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Be sure to check out the 'Things to Do' section and the "Travel" page for some recommended spots to eat, drink, and explore.

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Am I allowed to take photos at your wedding?

Answer

We kindly ask that you refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony, as our photographers will be capturing these special moments. At the reception we encourage lots of pictures.

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Can I smoke and if so where?

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Yes, The designated smoking area is located at the picnic table near the restrooms. Smoking outside of the designated area is prohibited. The venue owner reserves the right to ask anyone not adhering to this policy to leave.

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