FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

We invite you to RSVP and book your stay by May 1, 2026.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We're thrilled that you're coming to celebrate with us—and your presence is present enough! But, if you'd like to help us spruce up our place, you can find our registry at on the "Registry" tab or at Crate and Barrel, Target, Anthropologie, and Amazon.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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We have reserved a room block at the Wildwood Hotel. To book your stay by May 1st, 2026 by calling (636) 733-9100 and mentioning the Henry/Rule Wedding. This will ensure you receive the discount, are placed in the correct room block, and can discuss special requests before reserving. Please note that you MUST call the hotel directly to receive the discount.

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Is there transportation between the hotel and Westwind Hills?

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We will provide a shuttle to and from the Wildwood Hotel on the day of the ceremony and reception. Details are forthcoming.

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What's the dress code for your wedding?

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Formal attire: We suggest guests wear a suit in any color or a cocktail dress. Please note that the venue does not permit blue jeans or sneakers.

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Can I bring my plus one? What about my kids?

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Because of limited venue space, we unfortunately can't accommodate plus-ones or children beyond those noted on your invitation. We look forward to celebrating with you!

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Where is the venue?

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Our venue's address is 1641 Hwy OO, Pacific, MO 63069. You can use this link to view the location in Google Maps (https://g.co/kgs/2Mrau3J). Once you arrive, you'll see signage directing you to the ceremony space.