Please no later than May 4th, 2026.
Black tie. We want to give you a reason to dress up! For men, tuxes or black suits with a black tie or bowtie; for women, floor length gowns
We’d love to celebrate with everyone, but due to space constraints, we’re only able to include those named on the invitation.
We absolutely love your little ones, but we want to give you the night off! With the exception of immediate family, we're keeping this an adults-only celebration.
Uber and Lyft are readily available in Carmel and a great option for getting to and from the venue. As this is a smaller area, we recommend requesting your ride a bit earlier than you might in a larger city to allow for slightly longer wait times.
Bus transportation will be provided to and from the venue from both Carmel-by-the-Sea and the Hyatt Monterey. Seats are first come, first served. If you’d prefer to come on your own schedule, Uber and Lyft are also available and a great option.
Both complimentary valet and self-parking is available at Bernardus. If you plan on drinking, please leverage the bus transportation we will arrange at the end of the night.
The ceremony and reception will be taking place in Carmel Valley, which is a bit more remote outside the center of town. Bernardus is also a hotel, with rooms available to book. If not on site, we recommend staying in Carmel-by-the-Sea or Monterey. We will be arranging transportation in both meeting points. Carmel-by-the-Sea is one of our favorite places on Earth. The small town is walkable with tons of cute shops and restaurants and walking distance to the beach. Monterey is about a 10-15 minute drive from Carmel-by-the-Sea, also with spectacular views, shops, and of course, the Monterey Bay Aquarium!