FAQs

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What should I wear? Is there a dress code?

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The dress code for our wedding is semi-formal/cocktail attire. Ladies should wear cocktail dresses (be mindful of length of dress, sleeves or needing a sweater due to weather), and the gentlemen should wear a suit and tie or a sports coat.

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What will the weather be like this time of year?

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April in Virginia Beach is always questionable. If it is to rain we will update those invited to the ceremony of our back-up plan!

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Will the ceremony and reception be indoors or outdoors?

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Ceremony will be held outdoors on beach! Feel free to pack a change of shoes for the reception as we will be in sand or we are providing baskets for those that would like to take shoes off and just walk barefoot! Reception will be indoors!

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What happens after the ceremony?

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The ceremony will be short with pictures for family and wedding party happening before and after to make the process quicker. A champagne toast will be had at beach to allow mingling while the photos are taken and then will be walking to the transportation that will take family and wedding party to the reception.

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What time should I arrive?

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CEREMONY GUESTS: We recommend that you arrive an hour before the start of the ceremony, to make sure everyone is on time, situated and we can keep things on schedule. We will not be waiting for those that show late and you will be asked to wait until the ceremony is finished and not interrupted. Plan accordingly for your ubers to the ceremony please! RECEPTION GUESTS: The doors will be open at 12:30, but recommend you get there to get parking maybe 10-15 minutes prior to doors opening. Once doors open, get inside and grab a drink! The wedding party will be arriving at 1pm and making their entrance. We ask to be mindful of time so that things can keep on schedule and get the party started!

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Where should guests park? Is parking free?

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Guests parking is limited at beach access and is allowed along road if you so choose, but is highly discouraged. We are providing transportation to reception. Rockafeller’s has parking as well, but the restaurant will be open for business hours the next day so out of respect we ask that if you must keep your car over night you then retrieve it sooner than later.

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Can I take and post pictures of the wedding on social media?

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As far as the ceremony goes, NO! We ask that everyone has their phones turned off and put away. We want everyone to be in the moment with zero distractions. There will be a photographer there and you’ll have access to those photos at later day! As far as our reception, YES! We encourage guests to post pictures on to their social media channels, our only request is that you tag each photo with our wedding hashtag #HeadOverHenley so that we can go back and see through your eyes and these shared memories of our special day for years to come!

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Are kids welcome?

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While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home so you can celebrate with us.

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Can I bring a date?

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We have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.

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Will food and drinks be served at the reception? What kind of food?

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Heavy hors d’oeuvres and drinks will be served throughout the restaurant! This allows us to mingle and have an easy flow throughout the event.

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When is the RSVP deadline? Do I need to mail back my RSVP or can I do it online?

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We’ll allow online and mail back! Whatever is easiest for you. The deadline for RSVPs will be February 2nd (2 months before the big day!)

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What’s the best way to reach out if I have more questions?

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If your questions haven’t been answered through the website, we have created an email specific to our wedding. We ask that you utilize this form of communication so that we don’t become overwhelmed, can stay organized and get back to you in a timely fashion! Below is the email for any further important questions, thank you! Email: henleywedding22@gmail.com