FAQs

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When do I have to RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by January 1st of 2026. We will be turning off RSVPs on our website after that date, so any RSVP that has no response will be counted as not attending at that time.

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What should I wear and not wear?

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Cocktail attire: suits, formal jumpsuits, cocktail dresses (knee length or longer), and formal separates are all welcome. Out of respect for the bride, we ask that ladies avoid wearing white.

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Between 4:00pm-4:15pm.

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What is the parking situation for the wedding?

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There is plentiful, free parking directly in front of the clubhouse where we will be getting married. We do recommend calling an Uber or Lyft as we will be having an open bar.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Only individuals named on Zola when you go to RSVP are invited, as we are wanting to celebrate our special day with our closest friends and family.

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Are kids allowed?

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With the exception of Emily's immediate family (nephew, Julian) we will be having an adults-only ceremony and reception. We appreciate your understanding!

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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Our ceremony and cocktail hour will take place outdoors, while the reception will take place indoors. It is roughly estimated to be a high of 77 and a low of 56 the day of the wedding.

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Is there an open bar?

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Yes! Please either have a DD or call an Uber or Lyft. :) Uber and Lyft are very accessible in this area and you should not have any trouble calling one, if you so choose to do so.

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What type of food will be served at your wedding?

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We'll be serving passed hors d'oeuvres in addition to fruit and cheese platters at cocktail hour followed by a buffet-style dinner (house salad, bronzed chicken, salmon, honey butter carrots, potatoes au gratin, beef tenderloin carving station).

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What if I have food allergies or dietary restrictions?

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When you RSVP, there should be an option to note if you have any food restrictions, which we kindly ask you fill out. If for some reason you miss that option when you RSVP, please text Emily, Alec, or Emily's mom Christine to let them know your dietary restrictions. You may still go through the buffet to select food you are able to eat, but we will also have a special plate made for you and delivered to your table.

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Have other questions not listed?

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Please reach out to Emily or Alec directly.

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How much did Alec contribute to the wedding website?

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This FAQ and the next one.

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How much does Alec love Emily?

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A lot.