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May 29, 2026
Crockett, CA
#TheTildsleys

Melania & SpenserMelania & Spenser

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#TheTildsleys

May 29, 2026May 29, 2026

Crockett, CA

OUR STORYOUR STORY

Our story began in 2016 when we both met through mutual friends, and we started hanging out as friends a little too often. We were very comfortable around each other and connected really quick, we both would go on hikes and sushi dates without either of us making a move on each other. On august 20th 2017 what I consider our first "unofficial" date we went to Santa Cruz beach boardwalk. we went to almost all of the rides, went to dinner and watched the sunset as "Friends". As time passed and we were really comfortable with each other, I was waiting for Spenser to make the first move but he wouldn't get the memo. I needed a reason to stay here but since he wouldn't say anything I thought he only saw me as a friend. At that time I wanted to move to LA to have a new fresh start in life but I knew deep down he was the reason I couldn't leave. On October 25 2017 I made the decision of leaving Napa and moving to LA, I told Spenser I wanted to speak with him but at the time he was working late but I told him that it was important and we needed to talk. I drove to his house around 11 and we went to this small neighborhood that had the view of the "Benicia-Martinez Bridge" (crazy to think that under that same bridge we will celebrate the wedding!) but then after telling him he kept asking me not to leave but wouldn't say why. We went back to town and I parked outside his parents house and at that moment I told him I wanted a goodbye hug. He got out of the car and a million of scenarios came to my head but without any thoughts in my head and full of adrenaline I went for a KISS! He paused and looked at me shocked and return the kiss back..... AND WELL THE REST IS HISTORY This picture at the bottom was our first picture officially together 11/22/2017

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