Although we love kids, due to the wedding count the only kids will be the ones in the wedding party.
We have a set head count we are allowed for that we are at max, so if there is a guest on your invite then you are allowed a plus one if not come mingle solo, there will be others!
We are having Buffett style with a few options for everyone to help themselves.
I always say “dress to impress” although it’s not “formal” let’s say at least semi formal.