FAQs

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Aren't you two already married?

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Yes, we are already legally married, but who says we can't still have a celebration? We’re thrilled to finally celebrate our marriage with our friends and family through a vow renewal ceremony, followed by a fun party! The day will follow a traditional wedding schedule, so come ready to eat, drink, and celebrate with us!

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Do I have to wear a tux / floor length gown?

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Yes, this is a black-tie event, and we truly appreciate your attention to the dress code! If you’d like some inspiration for attire, we’ve included a helpful link below with a variety of options for your consideration. Ladies: https://www.brides.com/story/black-tie-wedding-guest-dress-code-long-gowns Gentlemen: https://tuxedo.menswearhouse.com/special-occasion-tuxedo-looks Gentlemen: https://tuxedo.josbank.com/wedding-tuxedo-prestyled-looks?Wedding=1 Gentlemen: https://theblacktux.com/collections/suits-tuxedos?transaction-type=rent

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Are kids welcome?

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In order to create the most enjoyable atmosphere for all of our guests, we’ve decided to make our wedding an adults-only event. As much as we love little ones, we kindly ask that children under the age of 18 not attend, especially given that alcohol will be served throughout the evening.

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Do I have to stay at the preferred hotel?

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You’re welcome to stay at whichever accommodation you prefer! We will be reserving a block of rooms at a discounted rate at the preferred hotel for added convenience.

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Can I drive to the event?

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We do NOT recommend driving to our event. Since the celebration will run late into the evening and include alcohol, we’ve made every effort to ensure that staying in the Jersey City/New York metropolitan area is convenient and comfortable. Guests who choose to drive will have their alcohol consumption monitored throughout the evening to prevent any alcohol-related issues. Your safety is our top priority!

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Our preferred hotel is located directly across from Battello, so guests can easily walk across the street and down the pier. If you’re staying at another hotel in the Jersey City area, we’ve arranged an Uber discount code for your convenience to get to the venue.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin at 5:30 pm, with doors opening at 5 pm. We kindly ask that you arrive between 5 and 5:20 pm to grab a seat and enjoy a refreshment before the ceremony starts.

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How do I select my meal?

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During the reception, you will be able to select your freshly cooked-to-order entree of either a fish, meat, or vegetarian option. There's no need to pre-select your meal during your RSVP—just choose the option that sounds best on the day!

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I have a food allergy or sensitivity, can I make a special request?

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Yes! When selecting your entree at the reception, you can inform the waiter of any dietary restrictions or allergies, and they will ensure your meal meets your needs.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Formal invitations will be sent out Fall 2025. Please refer to the deadline indicated on the invitation!