We ask that you please arrive by 3:30 pm for our 4:00 pm start. We want to spend as much time with you out on the dance floor, so your prompt arrival allows us to maximize that time.
While we love your little ones, our wedding is going to be an adults-only event so that everyone can relax and enjoy the evening. We appreciate you making arrangements ahead of time and leaving the kids at home so you can celebrate with us.
We have a strict guest list to stay on budget. Our wedding is strictly RSVP only. We will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.
The dress code for our wedding is semi-formal/cocktail attire. Ladies should wear cocktail dresses, and gentlemen should wear a suit and tie or a sports coat.
Summers in Pleasanton can be hot. Expect the weather to be between the mid-70s to mid-80s.
The ceremony and cocktail hour will be held outdoors, while the reception will be held indoors.
After the ceremony, the bridal party will be taking pictures nearby for about 30 minutes. Guests can head over to the reception hall where we will be serving appetizers and beverages.
A free shuttle service will be provided to and from the venue. The schedule and locations can be found in the Travel section of this website. There is also ample parking for those who feel comfortable driving. Please stay safe and default to a ride service, shuttle or carpooling if you plan to drink.
Yes! Please check the Travel section of this website to see our recommendations and details about our hotel blocks.
We love photos! We do ask that you refrain from taking photos during the ceremony, we’d like that time to be unplugged. For the rest of the wedding, we encourage guests to post pictures using our wedding hashtag: #DownToSmith so we can see them, too!
Our caterer will absolutely be able to accommodate special diets. Please reach out to us and we will make arrangements directly.
We ask that you RSVP here on our website by no later than May 24, 2023.
You will be missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP “no,” so we can plan accordingly.