A formal invitation with a final RSVP will come in early 2026, where we will expect you to respond by May 1st, 2026.
We will be having a private ceremony - should you receive an invitation, our ceremony will start promptly at 5:30 pm. It would be helpful if all guests could arrive at least 30 minutes prior, so that there is enough time for you to catch up with family and friends, grab a drink, and find your seat. Valet service is required at La Caille, so time to find parking will not be an issue.
Our venue is set in the mouth of the canyon, and the site is full of lush greenery and vineyards. Our reception will be inside a Grand Atrium greenhouse. We would love for our guests to match the look and vibe of the venue site. Our dress code is "Formal Garden Attire". This may include, but not limited to, long dresses/gowns, floral patterns, suits or tuxedos, linen textures, etc. We want you to look your best on our special day! Gentlemen: PLEASE no denim. Thank you! Ladies: PLEASE do not wear white or anything that could potentially look white in certain lighting. Thank you!
In order to share a personal and meaningful celebration, we are inviting only those that are specifically addressed on the Save the Dates and formal invitations - no plus ones.
While we love all of your little ones, we kindly ask that our wedding be an adult-only celebration. We want all guests, including parents, a night of relaxation and celebration. We ask that all children 15 years old and younger stay home. Thank you for your understanding!
Our venue requires all guests to use their valet service. All of the hired valet drivers have received gratuity in advance, so unless you are feeling extraordinarily generous, please do not feel obligated to make any additional tips. When you arrive, you will follow the red brick road, which will lead you to a circle, where your car can be left for a valet driver to park for you. As you exit the reception, the drivers will retrieve your car for you.
On your formal invitation coming in early 2026, there will be a QR code to scan that will take you to our RSVP page. On this page, you will accept or decline your invitation to each portion of the wedding that you are invited to attend (ceremony, cocktail hour, dinner, reception, send off, and after party). We would love to have every one of our family and friends at all events, but please know that our venue only allows a certain capacity. Your promptly RSVP would be greatly appreciated in our planning process for our special day. We are so excited to share this celebration with you!
The ceremony will be held on the Vineyard Lawn, and there may be uneven ground on the grassy area. However, there is a paved walkway to get up to the ceremony site. The cocktail hour and reception site are both on flat, paved ground, making it accessible to all guests.
Your presence on our wedding day is enough, but should you choose to purchase from our registry, we ask that the gifts be sent to our home. This option is available under the "Registry" tab, upon checkout. If you would like to bring a card to the wedding, we will have a box set up just for this, and we would love for you to drop it there. Again, please know that we do not expect gifts, and appreciate you being there for us on our special day.