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November 17, 2019
Cape Cod, MA
#shoshandy

Shoshana & Andy

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The Wedding Website of Shoshana Gibbor and Andy Bailer
Kick-Off the pre-wedding celebrations on Saturday evening, by joining Shoshana & Andy at their Rehearsal Dinner. On Sunday afternoon, Shoshana & Andy welcome you to partake in their Jewish wedding which will begin with Tischen and the Bedeken—a custom where men and women celebrate separately before the groom is marched in to see his bride amid a huge amount of excitement and fanfare. You are welcomed to arrive anytime between 3:00pm - 3:50pm to join in these pre-ceremony festivities. Otherwise, please be on time, and in a seat, for the Wedding Ceremony, which will begin at 4pm.

Saturday, November 16, 2019

Rehearsal Dinner

6:00 pm - 9:00 pm

Chatham Bars Inn
297 Shore Road, Chatham, MA 02633

Business Casual/Cocktail Attire

Please join us for a rehearsal dinner on the eve of the wedding of Shoshana and Andy, hosted by Rick and Darice Bailer, parents of the groom. The Reception will begin at 6:00pm, with a buffet dinner starting at 6:45pm. There will be an Open Bar from 6:00pm to 9:00pm. Please RSVP on the website by clicking on the 'RSVP' tab

Sunday, November 17, 2019

Shoshana's Kabbalat Panim

3:00 pm - 3:45 pm

Wequassett Resort and Golf Club
2173 Massachusetts 28, Fireplace Room (Grand Pavilion), Harwich, MA 02645

At this Gal's Gathering, toast's are made in honor of the Bride. These heartfelt wishes and words of encouragement allow space for the women to shower the Bride with their collective love, advice, & support.

Andy’s pre-wedding Tish

3:00 pm - 3:45 pm

Wequassett Resort and Golf Club
2173 Massachusetts 28, Rose Building, Cape Villa III, Harwich, MA 02645

The Tish, traditionally, is a period of loud & atmospheric boy-time before the ceremony starts. It will be full of energy, whilst meaningfully building the anticipation for the events to come.

Bedecken

3:45 pm - 4:00 pm

A bedecken, which literally means "checking" is a Jewish tradition that dates back to our patriarch Jacob, who ended up marrying Leah instead of Rachel—simply because he wasn't careful. Therefore, the groom checks to make sure that he marries the right woman. (None of that soap opera switcheroo stuff here!)

Ceremony

4:00 pm - 4:30 pm

Wequassett Resort and Golf Club
2173 Massachusetts 28, Garden Terrace, Harwich, MA 02645

Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

We love your kids—we really do. But we want our guests to be fully present and as distraction free as possible during our Ceremony! So we’ve booked a couple babysitters for this short time period, to make that a reality.

Cocktail Hour & Reception

4:30 pm - 9:30 pm

Semi-Formal: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, and so are suits and cocktail dresses.

Dinner, drinks and dancing to follow our ceremony! There's an outdoor space that may get a little chilly at night—we recommend bringing a shawl or light jacket.

Monday, November 18, 2019

Monday Farewell Breakfast

9:30 am - 11:30 am

Wequassett Resort and Golf Club
2173 Massachusetts 28, Private Dining Room, Harwich, MA 02645

Casual Attire: Anything goes, from simple dresses to jeans, tees, and loafers.

Join the newlyweds for a Buffet Breakfast - the morning after the wedding, hosted by Michael and Terri Gibbor, parents of the Bride & Bunny Mazar, Grandmother of the Bride. Drop by before you begin your journey back home, for a quick bite and to say goodbye.

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