Shay & Gavin
Wedding Party
Sara Shaten
Maid of Honor
Sara has had the unfortunate privilege of being childhood friends with both of us and is the reason why we are together (though for the first two years of the relationship she swore it was never her intention to set us up). An incredible friend and support to both of us, the title Maid of Honor doesn't seem encompassing enough for our unofficial sister.
Jake Folgert
Best Man
There once was a traveler named Jake, And best man Gavin decided to make. Is it coincidence their last name Is exactly the same? They're brothers for Pete's sake!
Ivana Carlson
Bridesmaid
Shay is thrilled to have her sister Ivana her by her side. Despite a 9 year age difference, they share a passion for traveling, rock climbing, hiking, and music. Ivana's adventurous spirit, kind heart, and willingness to 'geek out' with us on a variety of topics make her an invaluable part of our lives.
Michael Shaten
Groomsman
There once was a fella' named Michael, "Gavin's second brother" would be his title, From co-composing music to frisbee, A solid friendship is what this be, They are close, there is no denial!
Jessica Parker
Bridesmaid
Jessica and Shay met in grad school and formed an instant bond over singing the Piña Colada song at the top of their lungs, calling BS at any professor that deserved it, and all around keeping each other sane while doing a lot of insane things together. Jessica's wit and humor still manage to keep Shay sane(ish) even from miles away.
Luke McCutcheon
Groomsman
There once was an accomplice named Luke, Who's been as impactful on Gavin's life as a nuke, Sorry, when I'm grateful I write in extremities, From friend group trips to childhood memories, Their friendship is anything but a fluke!
Kristina Pfotenhauer
Bridesmaid
Kristina is such a kind and supportive friend to both of us and the wife of David our officiant! We feel so lucky to have Kristina in our lives and despite the 1,100 mile distance between us Kristina always makes time to share book recommendations, teach us about birds, and share her many passions and hobbies!
Ryan Hummer
Groomsman
There once was a dude named Ryan, Who's made Gavin laugh so hard, he be cryin'. From talking life to new tech, Making puns when you least expect, Like a truthful big cat – I'm not lion!
The Great Gatsby
Ring Bearer
The one, the only, Gatsby the Miniature Schnauzer.
David Pfotenhauer
Officiant
A kind and wonderfully intentional friend to both of us, David and Shay have known each other since childhood and always managed to keep in touch through the ups and downs of life through their 20s. Now living in Boston with his wife Kristina, David still manages to make time to support us and share his passions with us. David's friendship is such a wonderful and priceless gift.