We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! If you are traveling from out of state and not able to find a sitter, let us know and we will try to accommodate.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
Cocktail, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.