Sharmic & Calvin
Wedding Party
Dominique Valentine
Best Man (Sharmic)
Dominique (he/him) and I share a bond that goes beyond friendship; it's a connection that's grown from shared experiences and laughter. We've navigated life's twists and turns together, creating a treasure trove of memories along the way. As we celebrate this milestone, I couldn't be happier to have Dominique standing by my side, bringing his unique blend of humor and loyalty to the wedding festivities.
Tye'Shaun Harris
Groomsman (Sharmic)
Tye’Shaun (he/him) and I became friends in college back in 2015, and since then, we've been inseparable. Through thick and thin, Tye’Shaun has been my rock—always there with a laugh, kindness, and unwavering support. Now, as my Groomsman, he's bringing his awesome friendship to my wedding day. I'm lucky to have him by my side, ready to share in the joy and laughter of this special occasion.
Anaiah Person
Groomswoman (Sharmic)
Anaiah (she/her), affectionately known as "Weasy" is not just my groomswoman but also my blood sister. Growing up together, we've shared countless laughs, supported each other, and created a lifetime of cherished memories. With Weasy by my side, I am not just gaining a groomswoman but celebrating the enduring connection of sisterhood on this special day.
KeHonesty Edmonds
Groomswoman (Sharmic)
KeHonesty (she/her) is my wonderful groomswoman and, more importantly, my cherished little cousin. Growing up together has woven a tapestry of shared experiences, laughter, and a bond that's more like siblings than cousins. KeHonesty, with her radiant spirit, adds an extra layer of love and happiness to our wedding, making it all the more special.
DeMiracle Wilson
Groomswoman (Sharmic)
DeMiracle (she/her) is a true testament to the magic of unexpected connections. Our story began in college when she decided to join an organization I was a part of. More than just friends, DeMiracle has become family—a constant source of support, laughter, and shared experiences. Now, as she stands by my side on this special day, we are celebrating the bond that transformed strangers into family.
Nathaniel Jones
Best Man (Calvin)
Nathaniel (he/him), affectionately known as "Nate", entered my life during the tumultuous years of middle school, and over the past 15 years, he has become more than a friend – he's my chosen brother. Our connection has grown stronger with time and through every twist and turn, Nate has been a steadfast pillar of support, offering unwavering encouragement and understanding. His vibrant personality and positive energy has a way of lifting spirits and bringing a sense of lightness to any situation. He embodies loyalty, trust, and an enduring camaraderie that has stood the test of time.
Malik Smith
Groomsman (Calvin)
Malik (he/him) and I became friends in college back in 2016. He brings a contagious energy that makes every moment unforgettable. Fun, energetic, and always ready for a good time, Malik has been the catalyst for many of my most adventurous experiences. He has a unique talent for encouraging me to embrace life's spontaneity and supports me in being my authentic and creative self. His lively spirit inspires me to approach life with a sense of joy and willingness to savor every moment. I'm lucky to have him as a brother by my side on this special day.
Ashley Lowe
Groomswoman (Calvin)
Ashley (she/her) holds a special place in my heart as a friend I met during college, someone with whom I shared every day of those formative years. Our friendship was built on laughter, mutual understanding, and comfort in being our authentic selves. Her wit, fun-loving spirit, and unwavering support made those college days memorable, and our friendship has proven to be a strong and steadfast anchor in the years that followed. Ashley brings an effortlessly chill and relaxing vibe yet structured; and I am grateful to have her in my life.
Markey'a Cotman
Groomswoman (Calvin)
Markey'a (she/her) and I met through the bonds of work in 2018. Our unique friendship has since blossomed into a source of unbridled joy, laughter, and emotional connection. She has an infectious laughter that can turn even the most mundane moments into cherished memories. Her support is boundless, consistently showing up for others in times of need. To our wedding celebration she brings an abundance of love and positivity.
Ryane Bartelle
Flower Girl
Ryane (she/her), our charming flower girl and niece, is undeniably the life of the party with her charismatic and loving spirit. Her infectious smile lights up any room, and her enthusiasm for dancing adds an extra dose of joy. She's a warm beat in our hearts, radiating love and charm with every step down the aisle. As she scatters petals and spreads her contagious joy, Ryane embodies the pure and beautiful essence of the celebration, making our special day even more memorable.
Ryleigh Bartelle
Flower Girl
Ryleigh (she/her), our adorable flower girl, is set to steal hearts as she walks down the aisle escorted by her big sister Ryane. Known for her lovable nature, Ryleigh is a hug enthusiast, spreading joy wherever she goes. Her infectious charm and warm embraces are sure to put smiles on the faces of everyone lucky enough to witness her sweet presence at the special event.
Kamden Person
Ring Bearer
Kamden (he/him), our adorable ring bearer and cherished nephew, adds a touch of sweet innocence to our special day. With his bright eyes and playful spirit, Kamden carries the symbol of our commitment with utmost care and sincerity. His warm hugs and lasting love is what we carry with us. His presence brings a sense of joy and family to the ceremony, creating heartwarming moments that we will cherish forever.
Tonette Boyd
Mother of the Groom (Sharmic)
Tonette (she/her), the Mother of the Groom, is a delightful blend of down-to-earth charisma and humble intuition. Her humor, kindness, and laughter creates an atmosphere of joy, making every moment memorable. Tonette's caring and thoughtful nature shine through, leaving an indelible mark on the celebration. As a pillar of support and a source of warmth, she embodies the essence of family, making everyone feel cherished and welcomed. Tonette's presence adds a warm touch to the occasion, and her genuine spirit reflects the values that have shaped the groom. As the matriarch of the family, Tonette plays a vital role in weaving the tapestry of love that surrounds our union, and her presence is a testament to the enduring strength of family bonds.
Beverly Davis
Mother of the Groom (Calvin)
Beverly (she/her), the Mother of the Groom, is the beacon of grace and strength. With a heart full of love, Beverly exudes warmth and kindness, creating an atmosphere of comfort and acceptance. Beverly's wisdom and nurturing spirit have been a guiding force, and her joy on this special day radiates, making it even more memorable. As the matriarch of the family, she played a pivotal role in shaping the groom's character. Her quiet poise and unwavering support bring a sense of calm to the festivities. Her presence adds a touch of elegance and timeless beauty to our special day, and her endearing spirit is a testament to the enduring power of unconditional familial love.
Calvin Bartelle, Sr (at peace)
Father of the Groom
Calvin, Sr. (He/Him) embodies warmth and sociability, his kindness shining through in every interaction. A beacon of warmth and kindness, he's not just a welcoming presence but the architect of a father who embodies strength and acceptance. With a deep commitment to family bonds, he symbolizes the spirit of togetherness that defines our joyous union. Although he no longer is here with us in the physical realm, we are gracious and blessed to be guided by a masculine spirit that brings a needed balance to our beautiful ceremony.
Paula Ward
Officiant
Paula (she/her), our officiant, is a serendipitous find from the Rainbow Wedding Network Expo, where our paths crossed, and we instantly knew she was the perfect person to guide us through this significant moment. As a passionate advocate for the LGBTQ+ community, Paula brings her genuine warmth and kindness. Her candid sharing of personal experiences creates a connection that goes beyond officiating; it feels like a shared journey. Paula's unique ability to weave Christian morals with an all-encompassing love for people resonates deeply, making our ceremony a beautiful celebration of love, diversity, and the values that unite us all.