Molly and Sean met online while living in New York City. Opinions differ about how quickly she responded to his first message. Perhaps Molly ignored that first message? Did he persist? You're invited to their wedding, so yes: he persisted. On their first date, they talked about crosswords (they do these together daily), game theory (always wise to run expected value outcomes), and moving in together (that took another eighteen months, but the will was always there). December 4 2015 became December 4 2018—New York became Philadelphia became Chicago became Philadelphia became New York again. In June of this year, Sean asked Molly to marry him in Riomaggiore on the west coast of Italy, and, this coming June, they hope to see you at their wedding in Silver Bay, New York! PS If you don't dance, you don't eat.