Wedding Party
Jeff Myers
Officiant
Jeff has been in my life for as long as I can remember. While he is technically my stepfather, in every way that matters, he has always been my dad. I couldn’t have asked for a better man to raise me, teach me, and be there for me. He is one of the hardest working people I know. Whether he’s building trailers, fixing his Ford for the 30th time, or taking on another project around the house, he is always working and always improving something. More importantly, he has always been someone I can count on. No matter the situation, he is there to help without hesitation. His work ethic, reliability, and the example he has set have played a huge role in shaping who I am today. He also has a great sense of humor, especially considering he lost his disciplining privileges early on after putting me in the corner and accidentally leaving me there while he took a nap. We are honored to have him officiate our wedding, and I am proud to call him my dad.
Hazel Myers
Mother of the Groom
My mom, Hazel, deserves more recognition than she’ll ever ask for. What she has built from where she started is nothing short of incredible. Growing up, my sister and I didn’t always understand her. We’d get frustrated with how much she watched over us, always checking in and making sure we were where we said we were. From smelling our breath when we got home to calling our friends’ parents before we could go anywhere, she never missed a detail. At the time, it felt like too much, but looking back now, I realize how lucky we were to have a parent who cared that deeply. That constant protection played a huge role in shaping who I became. While she didn’t want me to go into the military, she has always been proud of the man I’ve become and the opportunities it gave me, including traveling to over ten countries and serving in Afghanistan. She has faced challenges but never let them define her. From years of self-employment to going back to college around 40 to earn her paralegal degree, she continues to push forward. She’s also built an impressive collection of Civil War relics and become an incredible gardener. Everything she did came from love. I see that clearly now, and I’m grateful for it every day. I love you, Mom.
Scott Wigfield
Father of the Bride
I'm so excited to have dad walk me down the aisle! (Even though I know he would rather be fishing!) For those who don't know him, my dad is an exceptional artist, father, and outdoorsman. He taught me everything I know about camping, fishing, hiking, canoeing, and enjoying nature. He also has taught me how to fix things on my own- though I still call him to walk me through it. Although I wont have your last name anymore, I'll always be a Wigfield at heart!
Amanda Wigfield
Step Mother of the Bride
Amanda has played a big role in my life. She's been so supportive of both me and my dad. She has an amazing sense of style, a great sense of humor, and shares my love of animals and cooking. Although I don't get to see her enough anymore, its always a great time when I do. I'm so glad my dad found her and she willingly joined our family!
Suzanne Totushek
Mother of the Bride
I wouldn't be who I am today without my mom. She has taught me to persevere, be independent, accepting, and kind. Mom puts a lot of effort into getting the family together for events big and small, and she put a lot of work into this wedding as well. She made tablecloths, helped pick out decor, helped pay for the reception, and paid outright for our honeymoon. But above all, I'll never forget wedding dress shopping with her, and saying yes to the dress with her by my side.
Eric Totushek
Step Father of the Bride
Eric would tell you he is my friend not my father! I was already moved out of the house when he married my mother. Despite that, Eric has been wonderful to me. I enjoy our conversations, he always attends events I invite him to, and he's been supportive of me as I transitioned from a wild 20 year old, to a wild 35 year old. Eric brought my step brothers into my life as well, which I am so grateful for.
Autumn McCoy
Maid of Honor
She's my sister- everyone just forgot to tell us. Autumn has been there literally my whole life through every high and low. She's never gotten enough credit for how hard she works or how compassionate she is. I love our long talks and I miss our adventures. She's raised two incredible (not so little anymore) boys, Keegan and Wyatt. Between raising a family, working, and being there for family every time they call- somehow she still made our beautiful invitations, kicked my butt when I needed to make decisions, and kept me laughing the whole way through.
Laura Harsh
Bridesmaid
Laura is hands down my Ride or Die. We could probably make millions selling our wild stories from our younger days if it wasn't so embarrassing. No matter the situation, I always knew we were safe if we were together. But we learned who we were, what we liked, what was wrong for us, what was right. It's uncommon to find someone who you can be your pure, unfiltered self with comfortably. I found that with Laura and I am so grateful for her friendship. Now that we've become 'responsible', Laura is raising two ridiculously cute and sweet twin boys while working to become a teacher. I look forward to seeing her thrive over the next few years as the boys become little men.
Kristyn Davis
Bridesmaid
Kristyn is an incredible nurse who became a best friend. Trauma bonds are real and ours is the fodder for the absolute anarchy that ensues when we work together. If you heard our conversations at work, we would probably be sent to behavioral health. Kristyn brings the dark humor, sarcasm, and support I need to be the best nurse that I can be. But more than that, she is a phenomenal mother to her sweet little boy Braxton. Navigating parenting while thriving as a nurse is, in itself, an exceptional feat. I'm so blessed to have someone I bonded so closely with at work that it expanded outside of the hospital. If I could talk her into travelling with me I would.
Kelsi Bell
Bridesmaid
How do I even describe this amazing woman? Kelsi and I have been friends since elementary school. For years, our relationship consisted of me complaining and being insufferable, and Kelsi always being there to listen. I'm hoping I've become less insufferable over the years, and I'm so happy Kelse still answers when I call. She has built an amazing life for herself with her husband Will and her 3 beautiful children. Family and God have always been her biggest motivators, and it shows in her kindness, warmth, and ability to make everyone feel welcomed and loved. I've learned so much from her, and am thrilled she was able to attend this special day.
Dr. Kim Shoemaker
Bridesmaid
I have learned so much from Kim. Unfortunately I can no longer call her a fellow RN, instead she has earned the title of Nurse Practitioner! She is now gracing the Hershey ICU with her expertise. Kim is obviously intelligent, but she is also SO funny, fun, and has been a great listening ear when I need it. She graciously booked our bachelorette spot in DC for a girls weekend that I will never forget. I miss her, but happy she is moving on!
CJ
Best Man
CJ and I go all the way back to when we were five, wrestling, playing football, and breaking things we shouldn’t have. He was pretty much the only friend I was allowed to go to, which probably says a lot, either about how much my parents trusted him or how little they trusted everywhere else. He’s always been stubborn, and once he makes up his mind, that’s it. But that same stubbornness is what makes him such a solid friend. He shows up, sticks by you, and always has your back. We’ve spent our whole lives pushing each other to be better, and he’s been there through everything. I couldn’t ask for a better best man or a better lifelong friend.
Brady Myers
Groomsman
Brady has been a part of my life since I first met Ali back when we were 15 or 16. From the beginning, he was more than just a friend; he was like a brother to her, always around, always part of the family. Over the years, even when life took different turns and Ali and I weren’t together, Brady and I stayed connected. When I needed it most, he opened his home to me, what was supposed to be a couple of days turned into a few years. That kind of loyalty and generosity is rare. Brady isn’t just a friend, he’s family, and I’ll always be grateful for the role he’s played in my life.
Jay Williams
Groomsman
I met Jay after I moved back from Florida while I was living with Brady. We were introduced through mutual friends while out riding motorcycles, and he had just recently moved to the area from the Poconos. At the time, I mostly kept to myself and wasn’t really connecting with the group. Jay was different though. He was the one who came up to me first, and that simple moment turned into something a lot bigger. Since then, we’ve been practically inseparable. Over the past ten years, we’ve built a friendship full of great memories and experiences, and a bond that has lasted through it all. Jay isn’t just a friend, he’s a brother.
Hank
Groomsman
Hank has been a part of my life since elementary school. We were close neighbors, rode the bus together, and grew up side by side. We even ended up working at the same local restaurant. I spent so much time at his house that it felt like a second home. It didn’t matter if he was there or not, his parents always welcomed me in and treated me like family. That kind of friendship doesn’t come around often. Hank has always been more than a friend, he’s been family from the start.
adam Butler
Groomsman
Adam and I go way back. Our parents were close friends, so we were practically family from the very beginning. Growing up, he and his brothers were always around, and some of my earliest memories include the three of them, with Adam right in the middle of everything. Even as life moved on and we went our separate ways, we stayed in touch. As it turned out, we ended up living next to each other for about five years, which gave us the chance to reconnect and fall right back into our friendship. Adam has always been more than just a friend. He is family, and I am really grateful for the connection we have had all these years.
Emily Burrill
Crouton's Daycare
Emily has provided Crouton with a safe, exciting, and happy place to be when his mom and dad are working (and getting ready for their wedding). Crouton has learned socialization skills and appropriate play with his friends under her supervision. Emily has given me peace of mind that Crouton is living his best life everyday despite his moms ridiculous work schedule. I was hopelessly trying to find a place for him to be that worked with my hours and his size when I found her online. Emily has been amazingly accommodating to our needs and loves all the dogs. I couldn't imagine the last year without her help. Thank you for taking on our big baby and my horrific schedule.
Emily Anderson
Crouton's Trainer
Emily will be helping our Ringbearer Crouton contain and or express his excitement on our wedding day! Emily taught me how to understand and connect with Crouton on a deeper level in order to foster a great training relationship with him. Without her help, Crouton would still be a wild child and I would be at my wits end. We are honored that she is helping him be a part of our special day, and so appreciative of her work helping shape our pup into the sweet gentleman he is today.
Stephanie
Bridesmaids Hairstylist and Sister of the Groom
Ashley
Brides Hairstylist and Sister of the Groom
Crouton
Ring Bearer
Our sweet tiny itty bitty baby boy! Crouton is honored to walk down the aisle carrying our rings. He's so excited that his dad and mom are making it official! Sean has helped Ali raise, house, feed, and enrich Crouton's life since he was a 6 month old caffeinated velociraptor. We like to think we have raised him well, but really he is just a sweet boy who loves his family. He can't wait to meet, sniff, and kiss any and all guests who will let him!
Mittens, Gabe, Milo, & Cuddles
Cat Brigade
Although our babies wont be there on our wedding day, they will be in spirit. Mittens reluctantly is sharing her dad with Ali today, which is very kind of her. Gabe is taking the day off from minding Crouton, and is likely trying to teleport through the bathroom mirror by scratching and yowling at it. Milo is desperately trying to get outside, Even though he's too soft and not cutout to roam the outside world. Cuddles is the only one that probably misses us- longing to put her butt in our face, ask for pets, then hiss and run away several times. We love you and miss you!