FAQs
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What is a Sikh wedding called?
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A Sikh wedding is called Anand Karaj, which means "blissful union." The religious ceremony typically takes place in a Gurdwara (Sikh temple).
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Do I need to attend all events?
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While not mandatory, it’s encouraged to attend as many events as you’re invited to. Each event has cultural and spiritual significance, and your presence is appreciated.
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What should I wear to the ceremony?
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Traditional Indian attire is recommended—sarees, lehengas, or salwar kameez for women, and kurta pajamas or sherwanis for men. If wearing Western clothing, please ensure it’s modest (covered shoulders/knees for women, and formal for men).
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Do I need to cover my head?
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Yes, covering your head is required in the Gurdwara for both men and women. Women may wear a scarf or shawl; men can use a bandana or handkerchief. Extras are usually provided at the entrance.
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What should I expect during the Anand Karaj?
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The ceremony includes prayers, hymns, and the couple walking around the Guru Granth Sahib (Sikh holy scripture) four times. It usually lasts about 1–1.5 hours.
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Are there any colors I should avoid?
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Yes, please avoid wearing black or white (associated with mourning), and also avoid red or pink, which are traditionally worn by the bride.
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Where can I find Indian outfits?
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For a variety of outfit choices, feel free to check out the following websites: www.lashkaraa.com www.perniaspopupshop.com www.azafashions.com https://www.kalkifashion.com/salwar-kameez.html
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Will food be served?
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Yes! A vegetarian meal called "langar" is served to all guests, regardless of faith. It’s customary to sit on the floor while eating in the Gurdwara. Seating is provided for guests who are not able to sit on the floor. We sit on the floor to eat as it bring us all closer at the same level regardless of wealth, caste, or faith. More food will be available at the couple's residence after the ceremony.
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Are alcohol or meat allowed?
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Not in the Gurdwara or during the religious ceremony. However, some pre-wedding or reception events may include non-vegetarian food and alcohol.
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Should I bring a gift?
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Boxed Gifts are not allowed at these events due to logistics, and many guests choose to give monetary gifts in a card. Please check our Zola registry for online newlyweds funds.
