The Trajectory of COVID-19
We have no idea how long this pandemic will last. Scientists are predicting that this could go on for anywhere from 12 months to three years. So, let's say we postpone this for a few months and then COVID-19 cases spike up again. THEN what? Do we postpone again? Should we just keep postponing until there's a vaccine available to the public? Authorities are predicting that a vaccine won't be available for at least 18 months, and it's unreasonable to expect anyone as ridiculously good-looking as us to remain legally single indefinitely.
Health
So, you're worried about your health and safety? Well, as it turns out, so are we! And selfishly, we'd both like our parents to be alive when we get married. My brother lost his father-in-law earlier this year and my dad was briefly hospitalized last Thanksgiving. Life is precious and fleeting, and in the past year alone, I've been to more funerals for people in their 60s and 70s than any other demographic.
The Only Reason that Actually Matters
This is the decision that makes the most sense for us. Once it's safe to have a proper party with dancing and hugs and family and friends and Temple Beth-El members, we'll make sure to let you all know. We're disappointed about this, too, and your compassion and understanding would be appreciated right now.