When you’ve been dating for so long how do you know when it’s finally over? When you’ve found the one you want to wake up to? To roll over one day and find your partner’s face permanently wrinkled from all the shared laughter, joy and pain? Here’s how finding that person can start with a simple conversation at a bar. A cold beer in Luis’s hand, a cocktail in Sandra’s. Movies quickly became the topic of discussion. Who knew that movies could be the first building block of love? Social media makes it easy from here. They were able to walk away from the night without having to ask for a phone number, maybe seeming too eager. Weeks passed as the smitten pair exchanged constant messages. Until the fateful night came when they finally decided to go see a beloved horror movie together. By the end of the night they knew; they had met someone truly special. Luis’s thirst for life and joy enraptured Sandra. The way he viewed the world was a vision she had never been able to share with another before. As weeks progressed into months she watched him carefully. The way he spoke to his dad on the phone everyday even though they run a business together. How he lovingly teased his mom as she looked at him with a mother’s adoration. Sandra fell more in love with every step he tentatively took in building a good relationship with her son. The “Yes” to the ring though ultimately came to the way he made her feel. Calm. In a chaotic life full of unknowns, he made her finally feel at peace.