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FAQs

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Can I bring a plus one?

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To ensure we can accommodate all our guests, only those explicitly named on your invitation and RSVP are included.

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Are kids welcome?

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We adore your little ones, but we respectfully ask that only those named on your invitation and RSVP attend. Thank you for understanding!

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What is Smart Casual Attire?

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For men, button-down or polo shirts with chinos or dress pants. Blazers are optional. Clean, dressy shoes or loafers recommended. For women, dresses, skirts, or dressy jumpsuits, or a nice top with tailored pants. Comfortable heels, wedges, or flats are all appropriate. Please avoid jeans, sneakers, athletic wear, and flip-flops.

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What is Semi-Formal Attire?

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For men, suits or dress pants with a button-down and sports jacket or blazer (tie optional). For women, cocktail or midi dresses or dressy separates. Please avoid jeans or causal wear.

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What is Black-Tie Optional?

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For men, a tuxedo is preferred but not required, paired with a formal shirt and tie or bow tie. A dark suit with a tie is also acceptable. For women, floor-length gowns or refined midi dresses with hemlines at or below the knee. We encourage elegant, evening-appropriate styles that are modest, polished, and timeless.

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Can I wear Mess Dress?

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We are honored to celebrate with our military friends and family. To keep the look consistent, we kindly ask that mess dress uniforms not be worn, as the groom will be in civilian attire.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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For the ceremony, the two preferred parking lots are East of the cathedral at the intersection of La Grave Ave SE and Maple St SE. For the reception, we recommend using the Amway Grand Parking Garage located at 216 Pearl St NW, Grand Rapids, MI 49503. There is a skybridge to the hotel on Level E.