Wedding Party

Suzanne Sullivan

Hostess

As a Hostess, Suzanne will welcome you at your arrival and help everyone get to where they need to be throughout the event. •———————————————• "James and I have shared so many laughs (and a few fuzzy memories) with Ryan and Elisha thanks to our mutual love of late-night tequila shots! One thing we all agree on — it has to be the good stuff. We learned that the hard way after splurging on a fancy bottle that turned out to be, well… undrinkable. Cheers to you both, and to many more unforgettable (and maybe slightly blurry) nights ahead!"

Amie Bundy

Hostess

Amie is also a Hostess who will greet you upon arrival and help direct you to the places and fun activities you'll be doing throughout the night. •———————————————• "I met this amazing couple at another wedding in 2021. Our friendships were solidified after some wedding cake tossing, Jenga towers toppling, and oodles of tequila shooting! It’s an honor to be included in the shenanigans on their special day, nearly four years later!!"

Chelle Bourassa

Officiant

Hi, my name is Michelle (Chelle) Bourassa and I am honored to be officiating Ryan and Elisha's wedding! It is a big responsibility and one that I do not take lightly. I met Elisha in our childhood neighborhood. We had similar energy and became friends. I have never made a better wap then the one Elisha and I made for a party we threw. It was epic! We also both worked summers at a mill and would hang out in and outside of work. We connected on My Space. Yes...My Space! Then Facebook. We've kept up with each other over the years. I met Ryan 6 years ago at The Bar on Lynndale. Ryan and I sat and talked for 4 hours and there was something about him - I knew right from the start that we would be great friends and that he was meant to be in my life. Ryan has been a dear friend over the years. I have never wanted more than to see Ryan completely happy, loved and appreciated for the amazing man he is!! Imagine my surprise when 1 warm July night at Jones Park Ryan walks up with Elisha!!! It was like the stars aligned and all was right in the world. To see one of my oldest friends with one of my dearest friends made my heart SO happy. Elisha was cautiously optimistic...I remember the phone calls asking, "Ok, Chelle. What gives? He can't be this perfect. There has to be a red flag I am missing. Tell me the truth...what's wrong with him?" As we all know, we are here to be a part of and to celebrate the love that these 2 beautiful people share and YES, it is that perfect!!!

Drake Schleihs

Groomsman and Son of the Groom

Hello, my name is Drake. I am Ryan's son and Elisha's soon to be step-son. I am receiving my Bachelor's degree in Business Administration this May and have been a collegiate volleyball player as well. I also have been serving in the Army National Guard for over 5 years. In my free time I love to be outdoors whether it is playing volleyball, on a motorcycle, camping, or hiking.

Liam "Alnizzo" Allen

Groomsman and Bride's Brother

Hidee Ho Ya'll, I'm Liam Alnizzo, Elisha's brother.  When we were kids, I couldn't help but admire the way Elisha composed herself and accomplished everything set before her to the best of her abilities.  I don't remember what age I realized that she was better at practically everything there is to do than I am, but try as I may, I could never compete with her.  I, like all 3 of us brothers, resorted to cheating at games because we couldn't win honestly.  She's just that amazing.  At first it was hard, living in the shadow of her great brilliance, but as I've grown into adulthood, I've humbly grown accustomed to being in the background while she shines like the glowing sun and brings joy and light wherever she goes.  My life has been blessed with her presence and as she steps into the next step with Ryan, I am overjoyed to tears to be part of her special day.  I can only say I wish I could be as wonderful as Elisha, and since he gave me his business card first, it should be me standing at the altar with Ryan in July.  It should have been meeeeee!  

Dave Schleihs

Groomsman and Groom's Brother

I live is Stevens Point with Tracey, my wife of 25 years. We have one son, Preston. I enjoy many outdoor activities, especially Biking, skiing, camping, and hiking. I also enjoy following or attending sporting events for the Packers, Brewers and Badgers - and the related tailgating. I am very happy Ryan and Elisha found each other. We have enjoyed growing closer with Elisha and her family and are looking forward to making many memories.

Tia Ress

Bridesmaid and Liam's Partner

I met Elisha and Ryan through Liam, Elisha’s brother and my partner. Right away, I was impressed with Elisha’s style, intelligence, and incredible charcuterie abilities! I’m so excited to be part of your Day of Love. ♥️

Eden Schleihs

Bridesmaid and Daughter of the Groom

I’m Ryan’s daughter and also a twin to my brother Drake. Nick and I had my parents' first grandchild, Elliot, in October of 2024. I am currently in college getting my degree in business management and I'm also working as an office manager. The best part is being able to stay home with Elliot full time while I work. In my free time I love to do aerial dance. My favorite childhood memories with my father and brother Drake are of every year when we would go on a family trip outside the country. I loved playing volleyball on the beach together and being able to have fun together each year. My dad is a very special person. He is sweet, caring, loving, and has a huge heart. He is the best dad a daughter could ever have and an amazing papa for my son Elliot. It makes me happy that Elisha is the person to make my dad happy. I’m honored to stand beside the both of you on your special day.

Elisha Steltenpohl

Bridesmaid

Hi! I met my beautiful namesake friend Elisha just due to us having the same name! I was out one night with my friends and someone yelled "Elisha" so I turned around and so did she! I told her they were talking to me and she said no it's me and she told me her name! I couldn't believe she had the same name as me so of course I asked to see her Drivers License and without hesitation she showed me! We both laughed and have been amazing namesake friends ever since! Over the years I got to see this wonderful genuine amazing couple grow their friendship to a beautiful love! From one of the first times we all hung out at Jones Park for music to many more nights over the years with lots of shenanigans! I'm beyond honored to be part of the wedding party and have them both as amazing friends!!

Everett Albrecht

Ceremony Reader & Bride's Lifelong Bestie

I met Elisha in high school and we've been good friends through the years. Badass Besties, if you will. Sharing life's ups and downs, crazy adventures, and all the laughter you can fit into this short lifetime. Life is never dull with E&E! I'll never forget that one spring day in May 1995. It was a warmer day on the 7th of May, mid 70s, sunny. We had just had a bite to eat at Perkins and hung out at a park after dinner for a couple hours. Then we hung out at my place and watched a movie that forever sealed our friendship. The movie was Dumb and Dumber and it changed her life. It was without a doubt the best 110 minutes of her life... until one fateful day when she met Ryan. I have since then realized Lloyd and Harry, despite their Epic Greatness, cannot compete with Ryan. So now I tip my hat to the happy couple and wish them all the best. I am honored to be a part of your big day.

Tatianna Donaldson

Bridesmaid

My, what an honor it is to be a part of this special day for Ryan and Elisha! I met Elisha 15 years ago.... Both young moms with like minds, figuring life out. I admire you for your strength and determination. Literally you have been one of the strongest women I know! After I came home with my third baby, I'll never forget Elisha coming over with all her cleaning supplies and cleaning my house! I was convinced you were a superhero! From fun hairdos, hanging out with all our kids, camping, hot tubbing and delicious drink making, we definitely have had some great times! I’ve enjoyed spending time with you and Ryan these past few years and I couldn’t be happier for you both! You are a treasured friend Elisha and thank you for choosing me to celebrate this day with you!

Tim Brown

Groomsman and Groom's Brother-In-Law

Hi, my name is Tim Brown and I’m married to Ryan’s favorite sister (Gina made me say that 🤭). We have two adult children and we live In Hortonville. We first met Elisha at a Thanksgiving dinner that was hosted by Ryan and Elisha. We have enjoyed getting to know Elisha and her family over the last few years, and I’m honored to be able to participate in their special day.

Renee Funk

Bridesmaid

With Elisha and Ryan, I knew from the moment we met that we would become great friends. As I think about our friendship, I look back knowing that it hasn't really been that long. How very blessed am I to have these two be a part of my life!! Elisha is like the sister I never had. It's no wonder that Ryan loves her so. I'm so elated to be a part of their special day!

Lee Golden

Groomsman

Hi, I'm Lee. I’ve been self-employed for about 20 years as a consumer goods broker and also owned a supplement company. I met Ryan about two years before Elisha, going out with friends and he is always a nice person and a gentleman. As I’ve gotten to know him more over the years he’s reinforced that belief more and more. When I met Elisha, it was cool because we had a discussion on life and people, is it checkers or is it chess. Still up for discussion I believe 🤣. I was there the first day Ryan and Elisha met at Maloney’s and he couldn’t keep an eyes off of her. Then we were all at Waverly the next week and when they talked again, July 24, 2021, and I could see the connection. You two are both are Yin and Yang, meant for each other! Can’t wait to watch the future unfold…

Alia Swingle

Bridesmaid

Hi everyone! Elisha and I met at breakfast. One of our mutual friends told us both we NEEDED to meet each other and she was right!! Most of our fun memories revolve around food, dancing, and drinks! However we've shared deep conversations and shallow giggles, sat in discomfort together, and stood side by side to celebrate the small wins. I’m beyond honored to be part of this special day. Thank you Ryan for always standing beside my beautiful friend. From now until forever.

Steve Bourassa

Groomsman and Officiant's Partner

Hi, my name is Steve Bourassa and I have known Ryan for about 6 years. We met shortly after he met my wife, Michelle because she said she just knew Ryan and I would get along. We bonded over some, drinks, darts and bags and became fast friends right from the start. Over the years we have done a couple projects together, weekend getaways, done some jet skiing together and have even played in a couple bag tourneys together. Ryan is my go-to bags partner for sure. I had the pleasure of finally meeting Elisha a few months after they started dating and it was instantly clear that Ryan is very happy. As his friend, that is all I really want for him. I am honored to be asked to be a part of he and Elisha's special day.

Michelle Kamps

Bridesmaid

Hi there! I am Michelle. I am married and have 4 children. We have a cabin up north where we enjoy bonfires and going on UTV rides. We live in Green Bay but I grew up in Appleton, which is where I met Elisha. I met her in junior high where we went to school together. We have since rekindled our amazing friendship and it has grown closer and closer each day. Elisha and Ryan are amazing people, as we all know. They are so genuine and loving people, you feel it when you’re with them. I’m lucky to have you both as some of my favorite people in my life. Elisha and I have had so many fun moments and great conversations, not one stands out more than the other. I’m just so grateful and thankful for your friendship. You make life so much better. I’m blessed to be a part of your beautiful day and honored to celebrate with you both!  🫶🏼❤️‍🩹

Jason Gessert

Groomsman

Hi, I'm Jason. I've known Ryan for 10 yrs, he's one of the most kindhearted and generous people I know. We met through a mutual friend in 2015 at Rock USA and just started hanging out and became good friends. I was there when Ryan and Elisha met and I'm so happy that they did. The smiles that they put on each other's face are well deserved.

Melissa Quintanilla

Bridesmaid

Welcome, I’m Melissa. I’ve had the joy of knowing both Ryan and Elisha for years—even before they met. I still remember seeing a random Facebook post and realizing they had connected. It truly felt like a blessing in perfect timing. Elisha and I met through a mutual friend so long ago I can’t even remember when. She’s just always been there. Over the years, we’d run into each other, and slowly but surely, a genuine friendship began to grow. I met Ryan through our sons, who became friends nearly 12 years ago. Early conversations happened during quick drop-offs and pick-ups. About five years ago, Ryan offered me the chance to rent his home—a gesture that was truly life-changing. I will always be deeply grateful for his friendship. Watching their love story unfold has been such a gift. I’m honored to stand beside them on their wedding day!

Craig Weborg

Groomsman

A picture paints a thousand words lol 😅🤣😂 We were destined to meet through our common love, appreciation and pursuit of the finest tequilas this world can offer....😉🙂

Shannon Lane

Usher

Betsy Wischer

Usher

Tina Plummer

Unity Herald

I'm a silly, fun loving, hippie girl who lives a life built around helping nature, animals and as many people as I can.  Several years ago my friend Ric told me I needed to meet another one of his awesome friends Elisha. He knew we would hit it off. We bonded the first night we met with incredible chit chat and several tequila shots. We have had many many fun moments making so many memories. Looking forward to tons more!  When Elisha started dating Ryan I knew he was the one! It was a beautiful forever love. The way they glow with each other just melts a heart! So excited to be a part of their special day and their beautiful love! ❤️

Stephanie McGregor

Attendant

I met this amazing couple at a Christmas party. It was hard not to fall in love with them both. They are kind and generous people. Together they make one amazing couple. Girls dinners out, drinks, or dress up events….you are guaranteed to have a memorable time. If you need a shoulder to cry on or someone to stand behind you they are a call away. I’m so happy they were brought into my life.

Mikaela Johnson

Attendant

Hi, I’m Mikaela. I felt an instant connection with Elisha through our mutual friend Suzanne. Our beautiful friendship started with a spontaneous volleyball game, and it wasn't long before we began creating unforgettable memories together. From enjoying hot tubs on snowy winter days to engaging in tequila-fueled adventures filled with endless laughter, our bond has grown stronger with each passing day. What began as a friendship has blossomed into a sisterhood, making every day an exciting new chapter in our journey together! I feel blessed to call both Ryan and Elisha my friends.

Stacey Madson

Attendant

Hi, I’m Stacey! I’m originally from Manitowoc, Wisconsin, but I have lived and worked in the Fox Valley for 16 years so it is now my home. I am a dentist at Forest View Dental in Appleton. When I’m not busy practicing dentistry, I enjoy CrossFit, traveling, true crime and medical shows, rollerblading, and hanging out with my fiancé Mike and our two precious pibbles, Loki and Griffin. I met Elisha about eight years ago through mutual friends, but we really started talking and hanging out more in October 2023 when, via good old Facebook, we discovered that she and Ryan were in Vegas at the same time as my fiancé and me. Although it didn’t end up working out for us to meet up in Vegas, we went on a double date a few weeks after getting back and exchanged Vegas stories. That was the first time I met Ryan. It became immediately apparent to me how happy Elisha and Ryan are together and how much they care for each other, and that they are both always up for having (or creating!) a fun time no matter where they go or who they are with. I am honored to have been asked to be part of their special day and I know that when these two are involved, I expect nothing but a FUN time!! I’m looking forward to meeting the rest of the wedding party since I’m sure that any friend of Elisha and Ryan’s is as fun loving as they are. Congrats, you two lovebirds!!!

Bitha Jacobson

Attendant

My name is Elizabeth, I have had the wonderful privilege of calling Elisha friend for over 20 years! From the early days of having babies & play dates and managing the chaos to the spontaneous, and much needed girls night out. Elisha would be there ready to have fun and make memories. No matter how much time had passed we could always pick up where we left off. It was one of those spontaneous phone calls with Elisha saying we should get our families together for dinner & that she wanted us to meet someone. That's when we meet Ryan for the first time. Immediately it was evident the connection these two had. I could see the joy & contentment Elisha had every time she looked at Ryan & to see the same in him when he was around Elisha was beautiful! I'm so grateful to be celebrating this amazing couple! Elisha you are truly a beautiful soul and I'm so grateful to have you as a friend!

Asher Jacobson

Attendant

Seth Jacobson

Attendant

My Name is Seth. A longtime friend of Elisha, even though we didn't realize it in the early days. Our paths had crossed a few times early in life where we connected more so in passing. We went to high school at the same time, knew the same families, attended similar church events, etc. That all changed around 2016 when we both learned we shared a certain fondness/tolerance for tequila as well as a few friends. :-) Many get-togethers and dog play dates later our friendship grew. Then Elisha met Ryan. The first time I was introduced, I understood why she dropped off the radar for a bit. She was happier than I had ever seen. Truly content and so full of life! They both seemed to have a similar effect on each other, both beaming all night. I knew from that day on that the engagement was just a matter of time. And now here we are!