Wedding Party
Isaac Perry
Best Man
Along with his partner, Paula Coe. Ryan’s best friend from college, Isaac bonded with him over all-you-can-eat wings and digital dragon slaying. After graduation, Ryan helped him start his insurance career, which brought them together as roommates—and led to many Sunday dinners with Ryan’s aunt and uncle, late-night World of Warcraft raids, and early morning wake-ups from KitKat. Isaac has been a steady, go-with-the-flow presence in Ryan’s life—there through thrown-out toothbrushes, relationship struggles, and always offering friendship and kindness.
Shelby Ferguson
Best Woman
Along with her partner, James Harvey. Tommy met Shelby just before senior week 2010, and their friendship truly grew during college—she was at Temple for film, and he was at UArts for dance. From weekly hangouts in Philly to their legendary Senior Week Part 2, Shelby quickly became one of his closest friends. Through life’s ups and downs—family struggles, post-cruise ship spirals, and cross-country moves—Shelby has been a constant source of honesty, humor, and unwavering support. Having her as a groomswoman was a no-brainer. She’s family.
Jack DiFeo
Officiant
Tommy's Uncle and Godfather Jack is Tommy’s uncle and godfather, and a beloved part of both Tommy and Ryan’s lives. A retired autistic support teacher from the Philadelphia School District, Jack is known for his warmth, wit, deep compassion—and his unwavering love of chocolate. He has long been a guiding example of living openly and honestly, and a steady source of love and support for them both. Watching Hocus Pocus together remains one of many cherished memories. Having Jack officiate is an honor—and a reflection of the heart he brings to their lives.