FAQs
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What is the dress code?
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The suggested dress code for the Ceremony and Reception is formal garden party. For women: Midi or maxi dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or coordinated sets in light fabrics or florals. We recommend shoes that work well on grass and on the stone terrace. For men: Suits or dress pants paired with a blazer, button-down shirt, and tie. Lightweight jackets are welcome. Opt for lighter colors and breathable fabrics like linen or cotton to stay comfortable in the season. Above all, we want you to feel great and enjoy the day!
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Is there transportation to and from the hotel to the venue?
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Yes. Shuttle service will be provided between the Courtyard Reading Wyomissing and the Reading Public Museum. Shuttles will depart promptly from the hotel entrance at 3:00 PM and 3:30 PM. Return shuttles from the museum to the hotel will be available at 9:15 PM and 10:30 PM.
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Is there parking available at the venue?
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Yes — free parking is available in the lot between the Museum and the Neag Planetarium. Please use the Parkside Drive South entrance. Overnight parking is available if needed.
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Will the ceremony and reception be outdoors?
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Yes — both will be held outdoors at the Arboretum (weather permitting). We recommend dressing comfortably for warm weather and wearing shoes suitable for grass and uneven ground.
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Are children allowed to attend?
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Due to space limitations, we’re only able to host the guests listed on your invitation. We appreciate your understanding.
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Can I bring a guest?
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Due to limited space, we kindly ask that only guests whose invitations include a +1 bring a guest.
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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?
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We kindly ask that you refrain from taking photos or videos during the ceremony. We’re having an unplugged ceremony so everyone can be fully present and share the moment with us. Don’t worry—our talented photographer will capture all the special moments, and we’ll be excited to share the photos with you afterward!
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I've never been to a same-sex wedding before. How does it work?
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Our wedding will feel familiar to many: a heartfelt ceremony with vows and ring exchange, followed by a joyful reception with dinner, drinks, and dancing. While some traditions may reflect our personalities, at its core it’s a celebration of love and commitment — just like any other wedding.