No gifts necessary! Your presence is gift enough. (Awww)
We're doubling down here on not needing gifts or anything else, but if you insist... we wouldn't turn down a little contribution toward a honeymoon.
We get it. (Introverts unite!) We'd love to connect with you so have planned activities both before and after the wedding day (May 27 and May 29) to accommodate as many as possible. However, there is no pressure or expectation to attend any of those. We'll take you whenever we can get you!
Think maybe a little more dressy than church, but we're not going to Prom. In other words, a suit and tie or well-tailored blazer and dress pants are preferable for men, while jumpsuits, knee-length, midi, or tea-length dresses are great options for women. But also if you don't dress up we don't care. (Except we might judge you in the photos for years to come.)