Cocktail attire, please. But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose. Except you Rick, you must keep the buttons buttoned.
We love your kids—we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off! So book a babysitter for the evening and put on your dancing shoes!
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.