FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by Friday, July 17, 2026. We’re required to provide a final guest count to our vendors by that date, so it’s important that we receive your response on time. With so many moving parts (and lots of wonderful people to keep track of!), we’re unable to make assumptions. If we haven’t received your RSVP by then, we’ll have to count you as unable to attend. We’ll absolutely miss you if that’s the case!

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What time should I arrive to the ceremony?

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The ceremony begins promptly at 5:30 PM. We kindly ask that you arrive early to find your seat and settle in, because once things start, we’re starting. If you do happen to run late, please wait until the ceremony has ended and the couple has exited before joining the group.

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Are kids invited?

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As much as we adore your little ones, this will be an adults only evening, with the exception of our flower girls. Thank you for understanding! We know planning a night away takes effort, and we’re so grateful you’re making it happen to celebrate with us.

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What is the dress code?

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Dress code: fun and fancy. Formal attire is requested: Tuxes and gowns are welcome, as are suits and floor or knee length dresses. The bridal party will be in black, so we kindly ask that guests avoid black dresses. Instead, help us set the tone for a wonderful day by bringing on the bold colors. We’d love for you to really have fun with it! Feathers? Sequins? A dramatic sleeve? If you’ve been waiting for an excuse, this is it. It will be August, but the cocktail hour and reception will be comfortably air conditioned. The ceremony will be outside on grass, so stilettos may end up aerating the lawn. We recommend a block heel instead. Oh, and please don't wear white.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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If your invitation includes a “guest,” that means you’re welcome to bring someone along. We’re hoping to keep our wedding intimate, so we truly appreciate your understanding as we celebrate with our closest family and friends.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We love that you’re excited (and that our flower girls are SO cute). While you should feel free to take photos and videos during the ceremony, we kindly ask that guests are respectful and remain seated. Please refrain from standing, leaning into the aisle, or otherwise obstructing the view of our incredible photographer, Taylor. From cocktail hour on, snap away - photos encouraged, margaritas encouraged, both at the same time? Strongly encouraged.

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Are you registered anywhere?

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We are! Apparently, "to have and to hold" doesn’t cover luggage or cocktail glasses. You can find our selections on the Registry page. Thank you so much - we’re so grateful!

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Is there an open bar?

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Does the pope have a balcony?

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Can I ask more questions?

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We’re both amazed and slightly scared that you still have questions after this entire page, but text Isabella anyway (217-722-5714). Response times may vary as she’s currently lost in 62 Pinterest tabs and refuses to close any of them.