We love kids, but our two nieces/flower girls will be the only children in attendance on our big day.
If your invitation includes a plus one then yes, otherwise we would prefer just you.
The ceremony and reception are all in one location so no need to worry about transportation between events.
The venue has a private lot that is $5 per car. We covered the valet fees for up to 40 cars, but we would suggest bringing some cash with you just in case. The venue is located next to Pier Village which also has parking garages that are open to the public if needed.