The dress code is formal cocktail attire. Gentlemen, please wear a suit and tie (tuxedos not required). Ladies, we invite you to wear elegant midi or floor-length dresses or a chic jumpsuit. Think sophisticated and celebratory — polished enough for a formal evening, but relaxed enough to dance the night away.
The ceremony will begin promptly at 5pm. Please arrive 15-20 minutes before the ceremony to find a seat and get settled.
We kindly ask that you put away phones and cameras during our ceremony. We want this moment to be intimate and fully enjoyed without distractions — plus, we’ve hired an amazing photographer to capture every detail! After we say “I do,” feel free to take as many photos and videos as you’d like during cocktail hour and the reception.
We love your little ones and are so grateful to have them in our lives. However, we kindly ask that you join us for a child-free evening at Tupper Manor. We want all of our guests to relax, enjoy a cocktail, and enjoy the reception to the fullest without worry. We truly appreciate your understanding and can’t wait to celebrate with you!
We wish we could celebrate with everyone, but our guest list is limited. Invitations are addressed to the specific guests we’re able to include — if your invitation was addressed to you “and guest,” then yes, we can’t wait to meet them! Otherwise, we kindly ask that only those listed on the invitation join us. Thank you so much for understanding — we can’t wait to celebrate with you!
Yes! Tupper Manor has parking on-site for all our guests. There are also plenty of ride share options (like Uber/Lyft) as well so you can truly enjoy the party!
Yes! Please see the travel page on our website for recommendations.
Yes! We’ve reserved a block of rooms for our guests at the Wylie Inn conveniently attached to Tupper Manor. You’ll find booking details and rates in the Travel & Accommodations section of our website. We recommend booking early, as space is limited! If you prefer, there are also many other great options in the area, including additional hotels as well as Airbnb and Vrbo rentals.
Yes, we are happy to accommodate most food allergies and dietary restrictions! Please ensure you let us know in advance.
Absolutely! The drinks are on us all evening. We’re thrilled to treat our guests to an open bar throughout the evening. Sip on your favorite cocktail, raise a glass of champagne, or enjoy a cold beer — all that’s left for you to do is have fun and celebrate with us all night!
Your presence at our wedding truly means the world to us — that is the greatest gift you could give. If you wish to honor us with something more, we’ve put together a registry of items and experiences we’d love as we start this next chapter. You can find it on the Registry page of our website.
We have a thoughtful backup plan if rain appears on our wedding day. While we're hoping for sunshine, our ceremony can seamlessly move indoors if needed. Rest assured, our cocktail hour and reception will proceed as planned inside Tupper Manor, ensuring a beautiful celebration regardless of the weather.
For any questions or concerns, please feel free to text either Allison or Michael or email us at rochella2026@gmail.com