FAQs

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Are you having more than one celebration?

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Yes! We’ll have a celebration in Minnesota this summer for anyone who can’t make the trip. Details for that event will be added to the schedule tab at a later date.

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Do I need to RSVP now?

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Yes, please! The Save the Date includes an RSVP option. If you RSVP “no,” you won’t receive a formal invitation later. If you RSVP “yes,” you can always change your mind closer to the date, we just need an early headcount to help with planning.

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What kind of wedding is this?

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This is a queer/trans wedding! We request all pronouns be used correctly, we both use they/them. We want our day to feel safe, supportive, and full of love. Please come with openness and respect. if that’s not possible, it’s okay to sit this one out.

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What’s the dress code?

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Black tie optional. Think elevated, elegant, and a little magical.

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What will the weather be like?

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The wedding is in Menifee, California, in November. Expect mild to warm weather during the day, usually around the seventies, and cooler temperatures in the evening, around the low fifties. The ceremony will be outdoors. The reception will be held inside a heated tent, and we will have blankets available to keep people cozy once the sun goes down.

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Can I bring a plus one?

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Unless your invitation specifically includes a guest, we kindly ask that you come solo. We are keeping things small and intimate to stay within our space and budget. Thank you for understanding.