Maid of Honor
During my freshman year at Murray State, I officially met Daisy. Our mutual friends told me all about her and for all I knew, she didn't like me at all. After meeting her, she became one of my best friends. From lunch dates at Winslow, spinning in circles (literally) at fraternity parties, driving all the way down to Miami to board our wild cruise; we became inseparable. Daisy is the most driven, passionate, strongest, yet most stubborn woman I have ever met. She will drop everything in a split second to help whoever is in need. I owe it to her for traveling to Iowa to support me when Blake and I got married before our big move to Florida. It is an absolute honor to have her by my side as my Maid of Honor on my big day. Daisy is and will always and forever be my person.
Best Man
I met Adam my first day at Murray State - Freshmen move-in weekend. From that first day we met, Adam has been my best friend. Freshmen year we both sang in the Murray State Concert Choir and rushed the same fraternity together. Even though we became fraternity "brothers," I consider Adam as the brother that I never had. Music, cooking, zombies, partying... no matter what it was, we had the best of memories together and will continue to do so the rest of our lives. And who knows, maybe one day we'll be able to open up that music/bar venue we talked about all those years! He's one of the most passionate, motivated, understanding, and supportive people I have ever known. I am forever blessed for his friendship. It is an honor to have him stand by my side as my "Best Man."
Groomsman
My longest known friend, I met Brad in Ms. Carter's 10th grade English class at Oakville High School. We were randomly chosen as partners where we made a class presentation over the flying spaghetti monster! Living just down Telegraph road from me, Brad and I shared countless memories and adventures in St. Louis that I will never forget. Never once did I visit home while at Murray State where Brad was too busy to hangout and catch up. Brad is my best friend, my wingman, and my other "best man." He is the brother that I never had. Brad also has the biggest heart of anyone I've ever known. Last June, Brad was selfless enough to visit Iowa to support me as my Best Man when Alexis and I eloped before moving to Florida. I'm forever grateful that our friendship will last a lifetime.
Bridesmaid
Our mutual friends at college also introduced us my freshman year. We were all playing card games and pool when we met. I made a statement that I was hungry and Zoye looks at me and says, "Me too. Wanna get Cook Out?" I got into this random girl's car to get food and who knew that was the start of our forever friendship? It's always an adventure with Zoye. Creek riding, exploring downtown Nashville, or vacationing in Texas, we always have a great time. She has the biggest heart of anyone I have ever known. Whether it's a shoulder to cry on or my ride home and hair holder after partying too hard; she is always there when I need her. I am extremely proud of her success and I can't wait to see where life takes her! Our friendship will last a lifetime and for that I am forever grateful.
Groomsman
I had the honor of having Gage as my roommate during my final year at Murray State University. Gage rushed the same fraternity as Adam and I when he was a freshman. He also lived on my dorm hall floor when I was an RA which gave us plenty of quality time to hangout. We immediately bonded over our mutual music interests, especially A Day To Remember. Whether it was us playing drunk rockband, adventuring Broadway street in Nashville, going hard in a moshpit, or just hanging out being goons at our apartment, he has always been there for me. Gage has a such a caring heart but knows how to access his metal side and melt faces off with his guitar riffs. It's never a dull moment around Gage and I'm beyond blessed to call him one of my best friends and know we'll be friends for life.
Bridesmaid
Having a sibling or siblings is one thing, but nothing compares to having a twin. Brittany and I had to learn the meaning of sharing, and basically how to find our own identities (it's challenging sharing every single birthday and always being referred to, not just as your name, but most often as "the twins"). We grew up doing everything together. She was always there to support me growing up and during my sports games - only to find out that she came to my games at Affton for the concession snacks! She has always been there for me, and while she can have her "stone cold" sassy moments, Brittany has a pure heart and cares deeply. I always dreamed of Brittany being able to be a bridesmaid and support me during my wedding. I'm truly blessed to have her as my twin "ditter."
Groomsman
It all started at the Murray State University department of Occupational Safety and Health. From sitting next to each other in OSH 550 to being groomsmans in eachother's weddings, Travis is a one-of-a kind "Habibi." During a difficult final semester of undergrad, Travis was always there to get me out of my apartment to Tap 216 for some fried cheese curds, beer, and good times. We have so much in common: we're both twins, love the St. Louis Cardinals and sports in general, and are "safety nerds" by profession. Travis has become of my best friends and I am beyond thankful for his support and friendship. There's no doubt in my mind that we'll be best friends for life.
Bridesmaid
My little sister, Alicia, has almost always driven me crazy. When she was little girl, she always wanted to be like her "sissy" and it would absolutely drive me nuts. Now that we're older, I understand that she had viewed me as her role model. Regardless of her being stubborn and hard headed, she has a tender heart and cares more than anyone would ever know. She would always give me a shoulder to cry on any time she saw me upset. Even though I am miles away, I will always be her big sister she can go to for advice and support. Alicia has great potential to do great things and I can't wait to see how successful she becomes. I hope that one day I will have the privilege to stand by her side on her wedding day because it absolutely means the world to have my little sister support me on mine.
Ring Bearer
My mother's dog, BowRed, is my childhood pet that I grew up with as a teenager. BowRed knows me as his "sissy" and I am his second most favorite person with mom being his first, of course. BowRed used to sleep in bed with me every night to keep me warm during the winters. Don't let that cute face fool you, he snores like a grown man! During my junior year of college, I assisted his neuter that was performed by one of my professors in my surgery class. I helped him during recovery and had him stay a couple nights with me to keep a close eye on him. It must be a tough life being related to a vet-tech! He was an amazing patient and everyone adored him. I cannot wait to see him walk down the aisle as our ring bearer!
Father of the Groom
From the day I was born, my father has been my best friend. No matter the circumstance, he was ALWAYS there to offer his unconditional love and support to both my sister and I. He never missed a game, never missed a performance, he was always there for me. Whenever I need advice or someone to talk to, my father is always has time to provide his guidance and wisdom. Without my father, I wouldn't be the man I am today. He is the most dedicated, intelligent, and honest person I know. As long as I have made him proud, I have been successful in life. He has been such an influential role model in my life, and I aspire to be the leader and successful man that he is. I love my father with all of my heart. He's my mentor, my best friend, and my hero.
Father of the Bride
My father has always been proud to have me as his daughter. If he could, he would shout it from the rooftops! Dad was always applauding in the crowd after my choir solos and after playing a lead role in multiple musicals from elementary to college. We won't even talk about the time he cried a little at one of my first elementary school solos... When I began college, he always came to Murray when I needed him. He also came to hang out and catch up over lunch and a few beers. Dad has been nothing but encouraging of my life-altering decisions and my future endeavors. There is nothing like having a father who is proud of all of your success and accomplishments. I am eternally grateful to have my dad as my father and my best friend. I can't wait to see him cry at the alter!
Mother of the Groom
What more do I need to say about my mother, she is the most amazing person I know. The sweetest, kindest, and most pure-hearted person on this planet, she has been my support system for my entire life. Because of my mother's unconditional love, my sister and I never did or went without. For all of the 5:00 AM hockey practices, weekend baseball tournaments,choir performances, or anything I was involved in, my mother was ALWAYS there to support me. She gives the best back scratches, and nothing makes me feel more at home than a hug from her. I owe everything I have accomplished to my mom - because of her, I am the successful man I am today. I love her with all of my heart. God knew I needed her in my life, and I'm so blessed to have her as my mother.
Mother of the Bride
My mom has always supported me in everything I have ever took interest in. Whether that was cheer leading, art club, choir, musical theatre, sorority life, and the list goes on. She has always pushed me to do my best in school and to work hard so that I can have all the better things in life. Ever since I was a little girl, she kept telling me that I needed to get out of Mayfield, KY because there is way more opportunity elsewhere. Mom selflessly worked double shifts to send me to New York to show me what the world has to offer. If it wasn't for my mother, I may not have taken the risk to move away from the small town I grew up in. Because of her, I am happily married in Florida pursuing my dreams. No matter how far or how old I become, I will always be my momma's little princess.
Officiant
Jeff is my dad's biological father, which makes him my biological grandfather. Jeff has always prayed over my family and I for as long as I can remember. He always thinks of me and calls to catch up when he's able. When I was in high school, my family and I went to visit him and I remember talking and laughing over his home made chili. In high school, he selflessly met my adopted grandparents half way to pick me up to stay at his place for a week. So much has changed since we last got together a few years ago, but Jeff has been nothing but supportive and proud of me. With him being a priest, a true man of God, and my grandfather, it is my privilege to have Jeff marry Blake and I surrounded by our family, friends, and loved ones.
Usher
Evan is my little cousin and Ben's brother that I was blessed to grow up with. I looked forward to every single weekend where Evan and Ben would be in to visit St. Louis! We would always stay up watching our favorite movies, playing our favorite games, and eating our favorite snack foods. Nothing was better then when we would go to Six Flags and enjoy all of the roller coasters! Evan is an extremely talented musician who not only plays instruments, he sings as well. He also got a scholarship to attend college where he is studying Nursing! I'm super proud of the man that he has grown into - he has nothing but the brightest future ahead of him. I love Evan like he's my own brother and I am so fortunate to have his support and be in my wedding.
Usher
Ben is my little cousin and Evan's brother that I was blessed to grow up with. I miss all the times where he and Evan would visit - especially when Ben would want to play Spiderman! Ben is such as sport's guru and it's always such a great time to go to a Cardinals or Blues game or watch a game with him when he visits. He follows sports religiously like I do and it's so much fun to see his enthusiasm when watching a big game on TV! Ben will be graduating high school in 2020. Whatever school he chooses to attend and whatever major he chooses to study, I know Ben will be successful no matter what - he has such a bright future and I'm so proud of him. I love Ben like the brother I never had and am so fortunate that he will be able to support me and be in my wedding.
Flower Girl
I adopted my sweet Stella girl two years ago during my junior year of college. I saw a picture of her as a five month old puppy and fell in love with her. My sister and I drove to meet her in Kevil, KY. As I entered the room, she came right up to me and gave me kisses. Her previous owner was in shock how well she took to me. After a few weeks of adjusting to her new home, she was attached to my hip. Stella has significantly changed by life for the better. She has been with me through everything. From graduating college, meeting and marrying the love of my life (she even met Blake before I did), moving all of the way down to Florida, and getting my dream job as a veterinary technologist. She is our whole world and we are beyond blessed to be her parents.
Flower Girl
My twin sister, Brittany, rescued Lacy in 2015. I remember the first time meeting Lacy - I was working as an intern in Ohio and had come home to visit for a weekend. After walking through the front door, I noticed a plumpy pitbull laying on the couch snuggled up to my sister. I remember Lacy loved to get tucked in under a blanket where she could bury her head and cuddle. Lacy is the sweetest, plumpiest, and most well-being fur baby I have ever known. She is a sweatheart who loves her momma (Brittany), Grandma (my mom), Grandpa (my dad), and of course, her uncle Blake. She loves her new aunt Alexis and has made best friends with our Stella Rey!