We love your kids - we really do. But we want our wedding to be your night off!! We have a few babysitters than we can give you to make that a reality.
If your invitation says "and Guest," then yes, if not, we would love you it to be just you. This is due to the limited number of seats we have.
But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose. Remember, this is a rustic chic/semi formal wedding event! NO JEANS!