Our wedding will include several meaningful cultural and symbolic traditions. We want our guests to understand what they are seeing, why these moments matter to us, and how they connect to our love story. During the ceremony and reception, you will see handfasting, jumping the broom, a second line, and a money dance. Each tradition represents love, legacy, faith, community, and celebration.
Handfasting is a unity tradition where the couple’s hands are gently wrapped with cords or ribbons to symbolize commitment, partnership, and a shared future. During our reception our married loved ones, will help wrap the cords around our hands. Each cord color will represent a different blessing over our marriage, including faith, love, protection, growth, peace, and legacy. This moment represents prayer, wisdom, support, and the covering of those who have walked in marriage before us.
A second line is a New Orleans tradition filled with music, movement, culture, and celebration. It is often seen at weddings, parades, and community gatherings as a joyful way to celebrate with family and friends. At our wedding, the second line will serve as a transition into the reception celebration. It will mark the shift from the formal part of the day into an evening filled with music, dancing, food, and joy. Guests are invited to join in, wave their handkerchiefs, move with the rhythm, and celebrate with us New Orleans style.
Jumping the broom is a meaningful wedding tradition with deep roots in African American history and culture. During slavery, enslaved couples were often denied legal recognition of marriage, so jumping the broom became a symbolic way to honor their commitment and union. Today, couples jump the broom to honor their ancestors, celebrate cultural heritage, and symbolize stepping into a new life together. At our wedding, jumping the broom represents love, legacy, resilience, and the beginning of our life together as husband and wife. It symbolizes sweeping away the past and crossing into a new chapter as one family.
The money dance is a wedding tradition rooted in celebration, love, and community support. In New Orleans culture, guests bless the couple by pinning money on them, placing money in their hands, or giving money while they dance. This tradition is similar in spirit to Nigerian spraying, where guests shower the couple with money as a sign of joy, prosperity, and blessing. At our wedding, this will be a joyful moment on the dance floor where guests are welcome to celebrate with us, show love, and contribute to the start of our new life together. Guests who would like to participate are welcome to bring cash for this part of the celebration.